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how important is it to work these out when trying to gain weight?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
courtesy of musclenetFOR FOREARMS
Behind the back wrist curls = 3-5 sets and 15 to 25 reps
Reverse curls = 3 sets and pyramid up in weight 10-8-8 (also help build the biceps)
Hammer curls = 3 sets and pyramid up in weight 10-8-8 (also help build the biceps)
For your grip!!! This is important. Here is a good program to get your grip up to par.
Look before you go hit your grip with full intensity, I want you to understand that you can hurt yourself if you train the wrong way. I am a victim of buying a damn heavy duty gripper. I wore myself out with that damn thing with no results. Oh I did have results, I hurt my freaking joints and developed sore ass tendonitis in my wrists. I worked my grip every day. And do you know what I learned? I learned that I was training the wrong way and too hard.
Those heavy grippers are great for TESTING strength. Don't get me wrong they are great for a workout here and there, but as a workout I do not recommend them. Training with these things will really screw your hands up. Carpal Tunnel Syndrome is easily achieved with these. Why? You put so much strain on your grip. Also, the pressure one creates on these grippers presses down on the veins in the hands causing poor circulation. In fact many of the gains from these grippers probably come from better nerve activation and not from mass gained. The average gripper is not fitted perfectly to how you normally close your hand. Look at your hand as you close it and make a fist. You will notice that no gripper on the market closes like you hand, so you need to modify your program for your hand's sake. If you want o use those super grippers then hold the gripper and squeeze it, but not all the way. Squeeze it about ¼ of the way and hold for as long as you can. Because most of the force applied from the gripper at ¾ of the range is transferred to your knuckle joints and not your forearms. You will find it easier to close all the way every week. I believe that endurance in gripping is far more easily achieved than to just try to go up in weight each week by gripping at the 70% max range with full range reps.
The safest way to get a strong grip is to do bar hangs and weight pinches.
Just hang from a bar and time yourself. Try to use a thick bar to hang from. Try to improve your time and your grip will get stronger. The main focus of this is to strengthen the tendons and ligaments in your forearms and fingers. The stronger these are the stronger your grip becomes. You can also weight yourself down as well. You ca also fill a fabric bag with weight and hold it. Also holding dumbbells can be used. Don't hang from a rope though. That causes a lot of stress on the elbows. Definitely don't train every day. 2 times a week at the most. 3-4 sets should be enough.
Weight pinches = pick up two smooth weights and pinch them with your hand and fingers flat and grip the plates. Start with 5-10 pound plates and try to hold for 30 seconds once you can hold for 10 seconds then go up in weight. Once you can pinch grip 45 pound plates, you are one strong mofo.
You got to STRETCH between every set PERIOD!!! The more you stretch the more room for growth. You also have to have a good diet, one that supports growth. If you are not gaining weight, then you are not growing.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, like this guy said. Also, I like to use big bars, hits my forearms better. I like to use 100 lb. DBs and just walk until I can't hold them anymore.grr said:Yeah, basically. But, you should use weights, and more than would be present in two five gallon buckets. We're talking at least 70 lbs for each arm, starting out. Its the very high weights that make it work so well. There are different ways to do them but I just walk around holding them for about 60 seconds across three sets. You know its working if a properly relaxed grip has trouble holding them for the last 15 seconds.
Also, those 5 gal buckets are a little bulky compared to dumbells, they would make you hold them far from your sides and work your shoulders too much when you want to isolate the forearms & hands as much as possible.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This is the best advice, skip all the gay wrist curl exercises. Deadlift as much weight as humanely possible and you'll gain size all around. Don't be stupid about it though, always keep your lower back straight and use your legs.Espi said:I never train forearms directly...I have obtained solid results from hammer curls and deadlifts...