Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Forearm exercises?

Scars

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My forearms are the only things I am really content on building right now. I am a pretty skinny dude. I am about 1 pound shy of 140 lbs and I'm about 6'0. Yeah, I'm pretty skinny, but I feel like my bi/tri-ceps arent really that horrible. They're average, not huge... but I honestly thing the thing that makes me look tiny is my forearm and wrist size. I have finally come to the realization that my wrists will never get bigger.. due to ****ty genetics and my bone structure... but I figure if I increase my forearm size I wont look like a weakling anymore. So what are the best exercises for forearms? It's really the only area I am lacking in right now. And my chest too. Chest exercises would be nice. I have an incredible lower body strength, but my upper body is just pathetic.. I've only been weight lifting for about 2 weeks now though. But I just got a weights class at my school, and plan to stick with it all year long.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what makes you look small is that you're tiny. bench for your chest, rows & deadlift for your back. ignore your forearms for now, they'll grow with the rest of you. read the a-unit collection, listed here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=126233 (4th list down). I can guarantee you that at 140 lbs. you don't really have what qualifies as "incredible lower body strength" (don't worry, many skinflints your size are under this mistaken impression).
 

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Throttle said:
what makes you look small is that you're tiny. bench for your chest, rows & deadlift for your back. ignore your forearms for now, they'll grow with the rest of you.
Bingo!
 

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Scars said:
My forearms are the only things I am really content on building right now. I am a pretty skinny dude. I am about 1 pound shy of 140 lbs and I'm about 6'0. Yeah, I'm pretty skinny, but I feel like my bi/tri-ceps arent really that horrible. They're average, not huge... but I honestly thing the thing that makes me look tiny is my forearm and wrist size. I have finally come to the realization that my wrists will never get bigger.. due to ****ty genetics and my bone structure... but I figure if I increase my forearm size I wont look like a weakling anymore. So what are the best exercises for forearms? It's really the only area I am lacking in right now. And my chest too. Chest exercises would be nice. I have an incredible lower body strength, but my upper body is just pathetic.. I've only been weight lifting for about 2 weeks now though. But I just got a weights class at my school, and plan to stick with it all year long.
Even with forearms you'll STILL look like a weakling. forearms wont cover up the fact that you are 140lbs at 6' which is SKINNY. You wont magically gain 5lbs on your forearms.

Lower body strength or not, you're only 140lbs. YOU NEED TO WORK ON YOUR WHOLE PHYSIQUE. Work on forearms alone and you will conquer nothing.

Take the advice given to you above.
 

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Add Hammer Curls, and Reverse Curls on your arm days.
Once you get used to it, add wrist curls, and reverse wrist curls at the end. You don't need that many sets after that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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shaunuk

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The thing is, when skinny guys (myself included) look at themselves and try to think about what makes them look skinny, the first thing that often pops into their mind is biceps. Is it your small arms that make you look small and skinny? No, it's *everything*. You look skinny because you are precisely that. It's your chest, arms, back width, back thickness, legs, shoulders and traps. Pretty much everything. Therefore to not look skinny anymore you have to not be skinny anymore.

So get yourself on a solid weight training routine and gain some muscle mass :)

-shaun
 
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