"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For you smokers - 18+

DJoneday

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For those of you who enjoy smoking (reefer's and tobacco, whatever), if you want to try something out, hit up a hooka bar. I went to one tonight and there were amazing girls everywhere. If you don't smoke, i'm sure this place would be a huge turn off for most...

But for those of us who don't mind, it's definitely worth checking out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Finch

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Yeah I agree. Hooka Bars are sick. My friends and I have been going to one in town for awhile now. There are some hot chicks that go in there sometimes too and the whole place is just more exotic. It's fun to go and just chill out too.
 

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ive never actually been to a hookah bar, but right now, i prefer hitting the hookah around the fire with all my boys.
 

familyguyfan

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I don't think you have to be 18 to go to one. I have some friends that are under 18 and have gone to one before.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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