"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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For you HS Seniors: What college are you going to?

adpreston1988

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Damn Potbelly!! Those are some amazing scores. Where are you going to college again??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Potbelly

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thanks preston. I'm going to Northwestern University in Evanston, IL.
 

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Out of curiosity, is there something about Northwestern that you liked over other schools that are equally ranked or higher?
 

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Why Northwestern?? With those scores (although I don't know your GPA) you could've probably gotten into a few ivy league schools. I think a few of my friends are headed to Northwestern next year.
 

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I did not have many extracurriculars. and I got a like 4 Bs during high school. Ivies won't take me. I also got into Brown (ivy), Dartmouth (ivy), Wash U, U of C and waitlisted at Duke, but I chose Northwestern because it has a top notch econ program (they won the fed challenge last year). plus it has an actual campus and it's near chicago a big cityt.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why the hell would you want to go to an Ivy school? Sure you can say you've been to some prestigious college, but it also emptied out your parents bank account.

To make it in life, I say it's better to have experience with people and living in the "real world" then becoming more intelligent.
 

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There is a lot of politics that lie behind the US News rankings. I suggest going to a school YOU feel fits you best, rather than blindly choosing schools based on rankings. For example, Brown is a subpar ivy. Also, Columbia is an ivy, but if you got into MIT or another school like an excellent engineering program at a non-Ivy, you would choose the non-ivy or MIT if you were interested in science. it always depends, as with most things in life
 

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Going to Georgia State. Anyone else care to join me? Would be cool to have a wingman right off the bat.
 

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I go to parachoial school (Catholic school), and my guidance counselor keeps telling us that going there simply makes colleges want me more. I don't know how true that is. But there's some dumbass at my school that had remedial classes, and switched to a local public school and got all regs with 2 honors classes. Explain that one to me. Is that true?


My GPA is a 3.73 (which I believe I can get up to a 4.0 by the end of my junior year). I took the PSATs beginning of my Sophomore year with a 1240-1850 range (Median is 1545). My goal would be to get a 2000, my goal is also to get into University of Florida, being 75% Hispanic would give me an advantage as well. On top of that, I will be Tech Club president. How do I look? Can I get into a good college?
 

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Bling if your unweighted GPA is 3.73 it's impossible to get it back to a 4.0
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let me know if anyone here is going to The University of Michigan. Like 100-200 of my friends are going since we're in state, but it would still be cool to hear from someone else going.
 

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Potbelly said:
Bling if your unweighted GPA is 3.73 it's impossible to get it back to a 4.0
It's weighted. 1.0 for honors, 2.0 for AP. I am taking 4 Honors next year. My unweighted GPA core classes is a 3.55. I can get it up to a 3.7 unweighted GPA by the end of Junior year. :( Too weak? I take hard classes, go to a Catholic school (which really has a harder curriculum than public school), and will be tech club president with also possibility of making the golf team? I think I'd regret this for the rest of my life if I didn't get into UF.
 

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ok man. Just keep doign your best. Dont give up and good luck with your goals. You will get what you deserve in the end.
 

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Harvard (R), Yale (WL), Cornell (A), Princeton (A), Rice (A), MSU (A)

PRINCETON BABY!
 

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Why MSU? It's nowhere near the level of an Ivy League School, unless MSU doesn't stand for Michigan State.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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adpreston1988 said:
Let me know if anyone here is going to The University of Michigan. Like 100-200 of my friends are going since we're in state, but it would still be cool to hear from someone else going.
I am most likely going to the University of Michigan at Ann Arbor.

Flabbergasped? said:
Harvard (R), Yale (WL), Cornell (A), Princeton (A), Rice (A), MSU (A)

PRINCETON BABY!
You are going to Princeton? Congrats. How did you get in? What are your stats? Did you do anything notable?
 

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I'm starting to think college isn't for me, but we'll see what happens.

I know for sure I'm not going into college straight out of highschool, but I'd change that if West Point accepted me.

My immediate plan after highschool is (4-10 years): to join one branch of the US Military (most likely Navy or Army), then if possible move to Israel to fight in the IDF (Israeli Defense Force). After such I'll be quite proud of myself and ready to do anything.

I think it would be a nice change of pace to get away from American women, and experience a bit of my Jewish ancestery. I'm definately excited for what the future may hold.
 

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itishe said:
I'm starting to think college isn't for me, but we'll see what happens.

I know for sure I'm not going into college straight out of highschool, but I'd change that if West Point accepted me.

My immediate plan after highschool is (4-10 years): to join one branch of the US Military (most likely Navy or Army), then if possible move to Israel to fight in the IDF (Israeli Defense Force). After such I'll be quite proud of myself and ready to do anything.

I think it would be a nice change of pace to get away from American women, and experience a bit of my Jewish ancestery. I'm definately excited for what the future may hold.
Very nice. Good luck.
 

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I'll be headin to University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign. Fighiting Illini!!!!!
I had a 4.0 GPA witha 24 ACT score.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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