"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For you HS Seniors: What college are you going to?

ArcBound

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Kevansta said:
I visited UCLA about 2 years ago, and the campus was quite frankly gorgeous. It looked better than most private schools I've seen even. The only issue is that out-of-state tuition is like highway robbery. I still might apply there though, and see if I can get some scholarships or possibly in-state tuition.

Northwestern is also a really sweet campus, located in an amazing city. I'm from Wisconsin and we visit Chicago about once a month at least. I wouldn't mind going to school there, its just that I've had about enough harsh winters for my lifetime.

Where exactly did you apply to anyways? And how many of those did you get into? Thanks.
Most University of California have ridiculous tuition rates for out of states. I got into Davis, LA and Berkeley but didn't go because of that. And also cause I live in New York xD
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bladerunner

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Kevansta said:
I visited UCLA about 2 years ago, and the campus was quite frankly gorgeous. It looked better than most private schools I've seen even. The only issue is that out-of-state tuition is like highway robbery. I still might apply there though, and see if I can get some scholarships or possibly in-state tuition.

Northwestern is also a really sweet campus, located in an amazing city. I'm from Wisconsin and we visit Chicago about once a month at least. I wouldn't mind going to school there, its just that I've had about enough harsh winters for my lifetime.

Where exactly did you apply to anyways? And how many of those did you get into? Thanks.
A = Accepted, W = Waitlisted, R = Rejected

UC Berkeley - R
UCLA - A
UCSB Honors College - A
UCSD - A
Bowdoin - W
Brandeis - A
Chicago - R
Claremont McKenna - R
Duke - A
Emory - R
Harvard - R
Northwestern - R
Occidental - A
UPenn - R
Pomona - R
Rice - R
Stanford - R
Swarthmore - R
Wesleyan - W
Williams - R

Looking back on it, the only places I would have possibly gone over UCLA if I'd gotten are Stanford, Harvard, UPenn, Emory, or Rice. Incredibly happy with my decision!
 
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