"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For Us Men, it's a Buyer's Market

JaegerPilot217

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PlayHer Man said:
Good post.

Both genders have their peak in attractiveness at different ages. Physically attractive women ages 18-30 are always in the highest demand and have lots of options. For men its more like 28-40. For both genders age alone doesn't create value. Women need looks and men need status. A homeless man of ANY age will have limited options just like an ugly woman of any age.

The good news is men have more control than women. Men can raise their value through education, wealth, hitting the gym, career advancement, etc. Women rely mostly on genetics and youth.. which they have no control over. Plus, they have a smaller time window than men to be attractive AND to reproduce.
starting to think that is true
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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While I agree that men in their 30s will have more options, this comes with a caveat that was discussed on this forum on another thread. Men in their 30s with some form of self worth, and have something working for them will have more options. A complacent schlub with nothing going for him who didn't **** women in his 20s and has made no efforts to improve will NOT be ****ing women in his 30s. Age in and of itself will not be a factor in how much more sex you get. Age for the guy who works on himself will be congruent with how well they have improved their job/looks/ status.
 
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