"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For those who've used or use O.L.D

TarantulaHawk

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Do you even pay attention to chicks profiles and why?

I mean if O.L.D chicks were truly "great catches" like they'd claim in their profiles wouldn't they have already gotten what they claim they want in real life and not have to resort to using O.L.D sites in an attempt to find it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Atom Smasher

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Yes, absolutely. I find 100% of OL girls to be complete whack jobs.

With most of them it's obvious and it becomes apparent right away. With a small percentage the truth erupts after a few dates.

It all adds up to 100%. It's completely unnatural for a woman to need to find dates outside of her social circle.
 

skinnyguy

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Atom Smasher said:
Yes, absolutely. I find 100% of OL girls to be complete whack jobs.

With most of them it's obvious and it becomes apparent right away. With a small percentage the truth erupts after a few dates.

It all adds up to 100%. It's completely unnatural for a woman to need to find dates outside of her social circle.
Agreed. OLD is for desperate people, both men and women.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Yes, absolutely. I find 100% of OL girls to be complete whack jobs.

With most of them it's obvious and it becomes apparent right away. With a small percentage the truth erupts after a few dates.

It all adds up to 100%. It's completely unnatural for a woman to need to find dates outside of her social circle.
I'd have to agree. I'm done with OLD, shut down my profile and cancelled my account. :down:
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Yes, absolutely. I find 100% of OL girls to be complete whack jobs.

With most of them it's obvious and it becomes apparent right away. With a small percentage the truth erupts after a few dates.

It all adds up to 100%. It's completely unnatural for a woman to need to find dates outside of her social circle.

Just confirming what I always knew about OLD even before I'd joined. Seeing 7 chicks (6 hot IRL one meh) out of all the chicks I know using OLD and EVERY ONE of the seven is a nutcase and or complete relationship disaster as I as well as others knew them and knew dudes who dated them before they used OLD. I mean really, what are the odds that out of all the chicks a dude knows IRL the ones who they've seen on those sites are all disasters?

Hearing from dudes who've actually used and MET chicks who use OLD and some of the stories you literally cannot make up. Every one of them said the same thing: The chicks on OLD are ALL whack jobs, complete trash or both. You name it I've heard all the details from various dudes.

I've experienced it years ago meeting a few that I'd bothered to. Last one was a parasite.

Anyone reading this would think "Oh he's disgruntled/ bitter etc." But it's actually hilarious when not only yourself but many other dudes who HAVE MET these chicks say the SAME thing.

There's two types of dudes who use OLD: The desperate thirsty "nice" guys, and the ones who know the deal and use the site for pump and dumps and aren't dumb let alone desperate enough to ever try to wife one of those chicks up.

OLD IS a virtual dive bar where the lunatic chicks of society congregate in droves.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maybe that's why I failed. I'm not enough of a thirsty nice guy to click with these whackos. I'll take it as a compliment. But I don't think EVERY guy that uses OLD fits that profile. Not by a long shot. But overall I think it was an utter waste of time. I've heard a few guys on here have racked up quite a few notches using OLD, to each their own.
 

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You find a few gems, but few and far between. Qualify, qualify, qualify ...
 

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guru1000 said:
You find a few gems, but few and far between. Qualify, qualify, qualify ...
Right there...vet them carefully, and watch for any red flags.

I use Tinder to find FWB's and it's worked pretty well so far. I'm picky as hell, I'll match with a few dozen and sometimes won't even find a good one with that many choices, so I delete my account and start a new one in a few weeks and find some new matches to talk to.
 
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