"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For those who work in an office

00Kevin

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Recently, I've become more disturbed with the concept of a casual dress code in the work place.

You might wonder how the f-uck a dress code could have anything to do with respect, well let me answer that question.

I think most would agree that a suit and tie is perhaps the most respective manner to dress. It provides an aura of authority and confidence. It also gives you more power over women.

You may argue that you can still dress well and command respect and attract women. This is true, but only to an extent. The problem is that you are actually compromising your game by just being a follower.

I wear the shirt and tie all the time. People ask me, why do you wear a shirt an tie when we havea casual dress code?" I respond with, "I'm a professional it is just part of who I am". In other words, I have my act together and I act like a man.

The women love it. They find me to be far more interesting an distinctive. One of them even plays with my tie. :) It is just so easy for a man to stand out. All the other guys are AFC chumps that haven’t learned how to f-ucken grow up. The women walk around them and use them as toilet paper(and that includes you metrosexuals ***** slaped *****s)

The other thing I've noticed is that the chumps dress casual and the women do not! In fact they have no problem dressing up when they feeling like being ignorant bi-tches.

This how women assert a false authority over men. This is also why there are a number of feminist books questioning why men wear suits and ties. They want to use the dress code to their advantage. They want to sucker you into dressing down so they can dress up. It levels the playing field for them. The casual office dress code is a feminist device.

Since I have taken lessons from the past the more successful I am with everything in my life, and that includes the hoties at the office.

If you want to be successful with women then you need to act and dress like a man. Not a metro sexual piece of **** or a dirty chump.

The bottom line is
Don’t be a chump! Dress like a man you will be respected like a man.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can dress in a suit, act like a goof, and omg, nothing works.
Yet I can wear some nice jeans, a decent shirt, act like I have a grip on the situation and I get respect.

Yeah, standing out is one way to be noticable, but if you're the guy that controls the situation, the one that at the snap of his fingers, makes everything happen, then you, my friend, are the man, instead of trying to being one.
 

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casual outfit to work (button down shirt and nice jeans or slacks, dress shoes) + sport coat in the evenings or outside

has been working really well for me
 

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Docs said:
I can dress in a suit, act like a goof, and omg, nothing works.
Yet I can wear some nice jeans, a decent shirt, act like I have a grip on the situation and I get respect.

Yeah, standing out is one way to be noticable, but if you're the guy that controls the situation, the one that at the snap of his fingers, makes everything happen, then you, my friend, are the man, instead of trying to being one.
You are also living in a fantacy world if you think you can wear jeans and command respect at an office. The CEOs of the companies and their clients wouldn't show much respect for you. Sure you might able to do everything and get everything done, but the fact is you dress like a chump.

If you are a man then dress like a man. If you are boy that thinks he is the man then sure go wear your jeans. Don't be shocked if the skirt next to you becomes your manager.
 

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what if your boss wears jeans? creative fields are very casual - advertising, journalism, software, etc.

if your boss wears and coworkers wear jeans and you're insisting that you can wear a three piece suit to the office, you're going to look like a fool.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you are harsh man :) but no.. i won't wear shirts..maybe ok for shirts but no tie please..no no i won't
 

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poohead said:
what if your boss wears jeans? creative fields are very casual - advertising, journalism, software, etc.

if your boss wears and coworkers wear jeans and you're insisting that you can wear a three piece suit to the office, you're going to look like a fool.
Your example is an extreme, but you should at least dress up one level above everyone else.

Furthermore, if your boss wears jeans all the time I would wonder what kind of company he is running.
 

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you are apparently not familiar with the software field.

if you walk into google offices everyone is casual as hell - jeans and shorts. semi dressy stuff is only for meetings with clients.
 

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How does dressing professional equate to being a man? If a woman dresses professional does that mean she's being a man? A man can look great with a good fitting shirt and jeans.
 
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