"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bcherb2

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...Im thinking of starting a powerlifting journal type deal in there, but want to know how interested people would be in it or if everyone just wants to stick with the bodybuilding type stuff.

Yay or Nay?

:woo:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'd be most interested in a food journal if you want to include that. I have trouble coming up with good ideas for meals and I don't like depending on suppliments.
 

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Im gonna take that as a vote for no on the thread then, my and my roomates(also into powerlifting) meals consist of roughly 2/3rds taco bell, the rest is various meats, potatos and pasta hahah
 

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LOL that's fine then. I'd love to see if you can actually gain much muscle mass on a Taco Bell diet. If you could buy a simple fat calaper and include your BF% in your reports that'd be great.
 
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