For those who have children

[jhonny9546]

For those who have had the honor of already being fathers.
Do you act like idiots in the presence of small children, making faces or making little voices like you do with dogs?

I see this very often, I can't understand if it is appropriate behavior.

 

[Travel memoir21]

For those who have had the honor of already being fathers.
Do you act like idiots in the presence of small children, making faces or making little voices like you do with dogs?

I see this very often, I can't understand if it is appropriate behavior.

May I suggest you do some babysitting sometime? Good practice

 

[justaroundthecorner]

For those who have had the honor of already being fathers.
Do you act like idiots in the presence of small children, making faces or making little voices like you do with dogs?

I see this very often, I can't understand if it is appropriate behavior.

Why do you care if you do not have one?

 

[BaronOfHair]

Do you act like idiots in the presence of small children...

I personally require neither offspring of my own, nor the presence of someone else's wee bairns and lasses to do so


"I see this very often, I can't understand if it is appropriate behavior"

In comparison to

-Yanking a newborn girl from her mother's arms, roasting DD over a fire pit like a cannibal lua, then devouring the infant, while her mums watches on, distraught and helpless

-Slicing a 3 year old boy's pants and Iron Man underooos off his body with a Bowie knife, bending him over, then going to town without the benefit of lube, whilst livestreaming this event for the entire planet's enjoyment





Yeah, making faces and silly voices is exceptionally benign behavior

 

[Divorced w 3]

For those who have had the honor of already being fathers.
Do you act like idiots in the presence of small children, making faces or making little voices like you do with dogs?

I see this very often, I can't understand if it is appropriate behavior.

It isn’t probably a good move if you have to force it bc you will come off like a pedophile. If you have a lot of experience and you genuinely feel warm to kids go ahead - but be sure you understand what you’re doing. Also why the question, are you trying to get with a MILF?

 

[Manure Spherian]

Do you act like idiots in the presence of small children, making faces or making little voices like you do with dogs?

I have never done this with my children or our dog.

 

[Gamisch]

Que???

Ofcourse you'll be making silly faces. A child goes through an entire process , where different behaviours are used take them "feel good". Fesmall.to bigg3r child 6o teenageer to adolescent to grown man / woman. And at some point you'll be a grandfather and the process repeats itself, knowing its YOUR bloodline. You might not even grow old and see that baby become a man / woman.


This my friend, are the things we need as humans to let go of that enteral " Dirty Harry-Terminator- esque mask. That mask by the way is the REAL burden: being unable to be oneself is the real pain of life.

 

[jhonny9546]

I don't understand why if someone asks a question you assume 100% that person has some shortcomings in that area.

And not that they do it in a genuine way to want to know more.

I have 3 nephews, so I've always had this thing having seen men become "little girls" with children, while others, still be cold and indifferent.

I never understood, from the perspective of a child, what it means to know someone act that way and the other way around.

Also, what women usually think about when men behave in a certain way?

 

[BeExcellent]

Do you recall nothing from your own childhood? Were your parents cold and stoic and unemotional? Babies learn and bond from non verbal interactions with parents and others.

So this is normal behavior.

Borrow your nephews and take them for ice cream. Be playful & interact with them. Best wing you can have as a single man is a little kid. Women will open you & chat with you.