maybe some of you can help me here...
Before i continue, let me just say that I've always been able to pull hot girls; i'm good looking, athletic, 5'10, get great grades and go to one of the top ivy leagues in the country, etc, - I say this modestly just to give you an idea of what i'm all about
Here's the deal - I'm a freshman in college and i've been going out with this girl for 6 months. We both go to elite colleges (though differnet ones), and this isn't just any girl, mind you. She's a model for a high-end clothing company (which I won't name), and is just as smart, outgoing, and fun to be with as she is beautiful; it's no surprise that I'm head-over-heels for her.
But every cloud has a silver lining, right? This one has more than one, so read on if you're interested. I'd appreciate any feedback you can give me.
Recently, we have been saying 'I love you" to each other, and I trust that she means what she says because her actions prove it. She has come up to my school 2 out of the last 4 weekends to stay with me, and we've had a blast.
But what makes me a little sketched is that she parties and drinks a lot at the frats at her school every weekend she's there. So, you can imagine that EVERY SINGLE FRAT GUY at her school is hitting on her because she is, without a doubt, one of the hottest freshman at her school. And of course lots of them have tried to hook up wih her. She promises she hasn't hooked up any of them, and I believe her.
However, she is also constantly surrounded by celebrities at her job - let's just say some high-profile movie and rock stars whose names you would recognize.
I love her to death, but I can't be around her as much as I'd like because of our respective college situations. She says that she feels the same way about me, but I have to believe that her new lifestyle may have eventually have an effect on her, even if she doesn't know it.
Surely, when frat boys, rock stars, and movie stars are constantly hitting on you girlfriend, you've got something to worry about.
So what do I do? I'm starting to get jealous, but I'm not the type to act like an immature, jealous *******. I realize she has a life of her own and I give her that space, as I need mine.
But is it better to love and lose eventually, or to break up before your heart gets broken?
Thanks guys.
Before i continue, let me just say that I've always been able to pull hot girls; i'm good looking, athletic, 5'10, get great grades and go to one of the top ivy leagues in the country, etc, - I say this modestly just to give you an idea of what i'm all about
Here's the deal - I'm a freshman in college and i've been going out with this girl for 6 months. We both go to elite colleges (though differnet ones), and this isn't just any girl, mind you. She's a model for a high-end clothing company (which I won't name), and is just as smart, outgoing, and fun to be with as she is beautiful; it's no surprise that I'm head-over-heels for her.
But every cloud has a silver lining, right? This one has more than one, so read on if you're interested. I'd appreciate any feedback you can give me.
Recently, we have been saying 'I love you" to each other, and I trust that she means what she says because her actions prove it. She has come up to my school 2 out of the last 4 weekends to stay with me, and we've had a blast.
But what makes me a little sketched is that she parties and drinks a lot at the frats at her school every weekend she's there. So, you can imagine that EVERY SINGLE FRAT GUY at her school is hitting on her because she is, without a doubt, one of the hottest freshman at her school. And of course lots of them have tried to hook up wih her. She promises she hasn't hooked up any of them, and I believe her.
However, she is also constantly surrounded by celebrities at her job - let's just say some high-profile movie and rock stars whose names you would recognize.
I love her to death, but I can't be around her as much as I'd like because of our respective college situations. She says that she feels the same way about me, but I have to believe that her new lifestyle may have eventually have an effect on her, even if she doesn't know it.
Surely, when frat boys, rock stars, and movie stars are constantly hitting on you girlfriend, you've got something to worry about.
So what do I do? I'm starting to get jealous, but I'm not the type to act like an immature, jealous *******. I realize she has a life of her own and I give her that space, as I need mine.
But is it better to love and lose eventually, or to break up before your heart gets broken?
Thanks guys.
