Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Quiksilver

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Personally I can't get enough of this stuff.

This is for those that see there is more to life than chasing pvssy, and are interested in a variety of subjects.

Very fascinating stuff, most of the subjects are worldly and interesting.

http://www.youtube.com/user/TEDtalksDirector

Again, this is for those that have curiosity built into your personality.

Enjoy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I love ted talks. One of the better things about the internet is the abundance of information and knowledge for those that seek.
 

Darles Chickens

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Yeah there's some really good and inspirational talks on there.

I found this one by someone who i've never heard (maybe it's Pook) and thought that it echos some of the messages that are put across on the board.

http://www.ted.com/talks/john_wooden_on_the_difference_between_winning_and_success.html

Some good stuff in this one too about endangered cultures. In the guys biog it states he's a "National Geographic Explorer-in-Residence". Pretty cool job.

http://www.ted.com/talks/wade_davis_on_endangered_cultures.html

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's a shame, really, TED talks don't get more coverage here more often. My favorite TED talks have been Michael Shermer (professional skeptic), Brian Cox (astronomer), Richard Dawkins (does he really need an introduction?), and Barry Schwartz (paradox of choice).
I found this one by someone who i've never heard (maybe it's Pook) and thought that it echos some of the messages that are put across on the board.

http://www.ted.com/talks/john_wooden_on_the_difference_between_winning_and_success.html
Pook's real name was Samuel. Amusingly, there was an historical Samuel Pook:
Samuel Moore Pook (1804 – 1878) was a Boston-based American naval architect and father of Samuel Hartt Pook, the noted clipper ship naval architect. In 1861, at the outbreak of the American Civil War, he designed the City class ironclads for James B. Eads. The City class ironclads, also known as "Pook Turtles" due to their distinctive shape, were the backbone of the naval flotilla deployed by the United States Navy on the Mississippi River System during the American Civil War.
No wonder why Pook was so mysterious--he was an ethereal ghost! ;)
 
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