"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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For those seeking LTR’s do you meet the family?

DJChamp

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For those seeking LTR’s or claiming to, do you meet the family and friends?


How do you get along with your LTR’s parents? Brothers / Sisters, extended families and each others friends?


Has your possible LTR met your family? Do they get along?


Or are you in an LTR or planning to be and never meet each others friends, parents, extended families?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Masculinity

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You've to know the woman well enough and know her character enough before you even consider talking to their family and friends.
 

Bible_Belt

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I am great with families! They always love me. Heck, bring along your mom, dad, and best friend on our first date. After they get to know me, they will confer together, and then make themselves scarce, in order to give you the best chance of getting some d!ck.
 

wifehunter

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'crosses that bridge when he comes to it.'

Most families DON'T get along, so I will not expect peace and harmony along with ice cream and unicorns.
 

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For those seeking LTR’s or claiming to, do you meet the family and friends?
Yes, of course.
How do you get along with your LTR’s parents? Brothers / Sisters, extended families and each others friends?
Very well.
Has your possible LTR met your family? Do they get along?
Yes, they get along very well.
Or are you in an LTR or planning to be and never meet each others friends, parents, extended families?
I'm in a LTR, would be weird not meeting family and friends.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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