"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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For those of you with a "IamSuperLoser" kind of user name

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awake

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I am going to give you a tip which I think has been given to you before (or I hope so):

CHANGE YOUR USER NAME.

Dude, it has cientific facts , you are what you subconsciously think you are or say you are. Those are the bases of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), and I am not talking here about SS, I am talking about the real NLP, the one that asks you to get out of your system the thoughts or phrases that don't do any good to you. Like "I Can't", "I am a loser", "I just can succed", "I hate", "I suck" and so on.

Change thoughts of "I will never finish this" or "I will never succed" for "I wonder how fast I will finish this" or "I wonder how soon I will succeed". Those thoughts indeed program you to accomplish your goals and succed, and by giving yourself the right thoughts you are planting a good start towards getting good results.

I am going to make this a thread. It is incredible how many people on this forum have user names like that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJStudent

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Yeah, what kind of "confident" person are you if your username is "Imaloser"? Good post Awake.

I find this sh!t dumb too.
 
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Mr. Delicious

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I guess i think of myself as having male characteristics and being quite tasty :D
 
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The Time Machine

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pressing the blue button...bump!
 
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S.Y.L

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Mine has nothing to do with anything on this site, or anything related haha
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Since someone previously complained about my name being negative, I will clear this up by saying my name "Dj in Hell" is in no way a representation of myself, its just a reference from a comedy sitcom which I like.
 
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