Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Interpol obviously has this covered, but I will throw in my 2 cents as well.
Why do you hate them? They can be your best friend or your worst enemy depending upon how you use them, but it sounds like you either used them irresponsibly in the past or were taught to avoid them when you were younger.
They don't exactly make "tons" of money. They are a business and have expenses like any other.
Good attitude to have, but if you are really serious about making loads of money from investing you MUST get past your hangups about debt. Like I said, best friend or worst enemy.
You are kidding, right?
BELIEVE ME, the problem has nothing to do with the rich not wanting competition. It has EVERYTHING to do with people not wiling to learn what it takes or do what it takes to make it happen.
Even people going into those specialized slots should be able to get paid a middle class wage and not fall into debt.
str8up already has this one down, but I might want to add a few things.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Most people learn finances from their parents who a probably equally as clueless. The "big secret" of the rich is to acquire appreciating assets. They find creative ways to get their name on the deed even if the odds are against them. It is honestly THAT SIMPLE.
Exactly. It has nothing to do with credit itself and EVERYTHING to do with the way it is ABUSED instead of used wisely.
Thanks. Been tied up for awhile but decided to see what was up around here lately.
You want to have and use credit cards because it helps build your credit. You don't want to be in the position where you are ready to start buying assets and not have credit. It takes YEARS to build a credit score.
You are only a slave to your own actions. If you do not use credit wisely it will bite you in the ass. If you use it correctly it will make you rich.
Unfortunately it is difficult to establish credit without starting on the consumer side. I initially established credit with department store cards and a car loan co-signed by my uncle. Don't worry about paying a little bit of interest as long as you keep things under control.
I hate to say it but you sound like one of those wacko conspiracy theorist nut jobs that thinks everyone is out to get them. How can you survive without a checking account? Do you go to 7-11 and buy money orders to pay your bills? Doesn't sound like a fun life to live, but to each his own....
, i can barely cover paing $335. He said, "well, dont worry, we will figure out how much you can pay later".Yes, you do have to be very careful with credit cards. It's easy to overextend. Keep a close eye on your spending habits and make sure you keep it all under control.
Great question. My girlfriend is facing the same issues. She is wanting to get into the game but since she is still in school her resources are pretty tight.
That is a GREAT way to view money. Always think about how much something is going to be worth the day AFTER you buy it. I do this when I buy a computer, car, ANYTHING!
Well said. One of the most important things to understand about money is "which end" of it you are on. Are you on the receiving end where people are paying YOU interest, rent, etc.? Or are you on the other end struggling to make the payment on a car that you owe $20,000 but is only worth $13,000? It's easy to sink.
I doubt I would be 1/10 as far as I am today if I would have gone the marriage route!Good thing i am determined not to get married until i am 30, otherwise good bye millionare lifestyle
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.