For those of you that are in love or have been in love before

[Climax]

I was just wondering... how do u tell if its love? ... i mean... what makes love different to infatuation or lust? or maybe even just be so attracted to a girl that u might think to urself that u love her.... how do u tell if its not just what u WANT to think? how do u tell if its REAL love? Signs? Affects? Your thoughts? what is it that makes it clear to you that its love and NOT infatuation, lust, or anything else that isnt love?

Some detailed replies would be appreciated greatly

Thanx in advance...


Laterz...

 

[catch]

ha ha ha, someones going sloppy, you should trust your instinks... if you can really really trust some one with your love then, i might be real...

 

[Centaurion]

From my signature :

"What is this Love that so many speak of with such apparent familiarity? Do they truly comprehend how unattainable it is? Are there not as many definitions of Love as there are stars in the universe?"

think about that for a while.

for some the feeling of love is just a raging boner, while for others it's the whole butterfly in the stomach thing. you can't really describe love, it's something you just *know*

 

[Climax]

hmmm..... ok... so then....

Originally posted by catch
ha ha ha, someones going sloppy

haha... I guess i have but hey, i dont regret it for even 1 second, its actually kinda nice to know that there is a girl out there that loves u and u love her back ... I've been throuhg ALOT with girls in the last few years, i guess its just time for me to settle down now and give "love" a go

Originally posted by catch
you should trust your instinks... if you can really really trust some one with your love then, i might be real...


Thats mistake most guys make, they let themselves love the girl, and they trust them with their love only to have their heart broken at the end of the day ... I have seen it be done to several of my friends... they thought that the chick loved them, she TOLD them that she loves them, then when she found a "better" guy, they left them without 2nd thought... I just dont want the same happening to me, or i think i'll end up treating women like the heartless b!tches that they are (well, at least alot of them are)


But i guess i'll just put her through some tests Eg: telling her that i might wanna break up, and SEE her reaction , etc.... but ya... I'm pretty sure that this girl isnt lying because the smallest things that i do makes her cry ec, i know her to be a "b!tchy girl" that doesnt show much emotion to other guys, but with me she is totally open and really does act like she really DOES love me, so i think that i'll take her word for it, BUT i WILL be cautious... for now


Laterz...

 

[Climax]

True...

Originally posted by Centaurion
From my signature :



think about that for a while.

for some the feeling of love is just a raging boner, while for others it's the whole butterfly in the stomach thing. you can't really describe love, it's something you just *know*

Now that I think about it, that is really and sadly.... true. Well... i guess that i'll just go with it and see what happens

Thanx for the replies guys...


Now i guess that my next question is this:

For all of you that are in love, or have been in love... What did YOU feel that made u know that you were in love?


Laterz...

 

[Desdinova]

Actually, I hate the word "love". It's a generalization of positive feelings, actions, reactions between two people. In a romantic relationship, sexuality becomes a factor.

- Love can only happen if the two people in question have similar emotions, actions and reactions to each other.
- Love cannot be a one way street (ie he "loves" her, but she doesn't know it).
- Love isn't conditional (I'll love you if you buy me a fur coat)
- Love isn't everlasting (I'll love you forever)

Other things that are involved in the creation of love is trust, communication, compatibility, respect, and in romantic relationships, sexuality.

That's about as technical as I can get on the subject. You'll definately know it when you experience it based on this outline.

 

[Climax]

Great stuff!

Desdinova: well put.. thanx ...

...and just to add to something that u said though...


Desdinova said:

- Love isn't everlasting (I'll love you forever)

Well... i guess not forever, but it can certainly last a lifetime


Laterz...