For those of you getting started. Heres a way to massively increase your results.

[IamtheAlphamale]

Ok I don't know if you guys have tried this but... stop masturbating. Maybe once a week. Trust me if you can do this you will approach more, be smoother, and be way more sexual. Other day after not masturbating for 6 days I got the number and then I basically felt this chick up hardcore. Then she leaned in for the kiss I assume. I just said cya later Trust me the stuff you will do when you don't beat off is crazy. I talked to this chick for like 5 minutes and when I felt her up she squeeled. Don't underestimate this. It is THE best way to get started. Actually its a good thing to do in general. I'm sure people might think its a bad idea for dates and stuff but its not because your way more confident and way more sexual. Its like they can tell you have a huge load waiting for them. This is the best thing you can do at any point in your game. Unless your planning on going to get it on that night because that would raise the child chances.

 

[banGbro]

6 days is as much as anyone should go, because at that point testosterone level will drope (from a scientific study about testosterone levels and ejaculating).


I believe it was in my not gym class, but whatever is the other class in HS that is where you learn stuff, but no exercise. She talked about mastrubation, and the point was there is no harm in it, except that it makes you indifferent to women, which they hate. Something like that, it was a long time ago.


From my own experience it relieves sexual tension. Sexual tension is important and is responsible, IMO, for proper body language, and doing things without thinking. In other words, when you are horny and open about it, she gets horny too.

 

[t0mCaT]

masturbating is a tough issue. If you start a yes/no poll on whether or not guys should jerk it - you won't get a unanimous vote.

Masturbating is bad - if not done in moderation - and if done while watching porn. If you say it killed your drive, I'm giving it a 90% probability taht you jerked it to porn on your screen.

Learning to love your body, and having a 3 min jerk while watching a gang bang are two very different things.

Sex experts even recommend that you masturbate.

But not masturbating at all is much better than masturbating incorrectly - you're right if that's what you mean.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

So, basically the key points here are... jerk once a week. Not to porn. Makes you more confident, more aggressive and more sexual.

 

[Mjazz]

Yea i feel you on that one man, definitely has an effect regardless of what people say. Even if it is a placebo, who cares? It works.

Tip: Go to the gym, get your deadlift and squat form down, and hit that weight HEAVY. Im talking like 3-5 rep maxes. BOOM testosterone up like 200%, guarentee the night after or morning after you will be super super horny.

 

[Rata Blanca]

Yea i feel you on that one man, definitely has an effect regardless of what people say. Even if it is a placebo, who cares? It works.

Tip: Go to the gym, get your deadlift and squat form down, and hit that weight HEAVY. Im talking like 3-5 rep maxes. BOOM testosterone up like 200%, guarentee the night after or morning after you will be super super horny.

Haha, so true!!

 

[evasive]

If you say it killed your drive, I'm giving it a 90% probability taht you jerked it to porn on your screen.

The only thing I jerk off to IS porn. Wtf?
Im not that good at visualizing stuff in my head..

 

[LA_Chico]

haha bro

 

[Strip Club Inspector]

I don't really understand this theory. If I don't jack off every other day at least, I am extremely antsy, unhappy, and a bit AFC. I follow the Something About Mary rule: if I jack off, I'm more relaxed and get less fixated on an object. I just am. And it helps my game.

Plus, frankly, the horniest most sexual people also jack off the most. This has been proven; the people with the most sexual partners also have the highest rates of masturbation. If you have a big appetite, having a snack won't hurt.

As for porn, it can be bad for other reasons, like making you dissatisfied with ordinary sexual experiences or expecting normal girls to degrade themselves with things like giving you a rim job or getting bukkaked. That said, I don't really think it's a big deal if you keep it in perspective.

 

[Mind_Body_Soul]

I've been experimenting with this after reading Gunwitch's stuff and most of it is true. The problem isn't in masturbating, it's in the pornography/excessive masturbation.

Watching pornography has messed up my sex drive on a weird level. I started having issues being aroused by anything other than porn. Watch porn = very horny, be with girl = moderately to minimally horny. It was very weird and I thought I had an ED problem. Turned out to be a porn problem. Stop watching porn, stop masturbating 3x a day (yes, that was me) and my drive went back to normal.

Also regarding squats and deadlifts. This is so true. If you aren't doing squats you are missing out on massive gains in testosterone and thus muscle gain.

 

[tobby]

This stuff isn't necessarily true. I guess it depends on your level of sexual experience. If you're not super "sexually active" not jerking for awhile doesn't really affect you. Don't miss what you don't have I guess.

Not jerking won't change what you don't want to change. I know this from experience. I've gone 3 months without jerking and I've had mixed effects. It's just like any withdraw phase after a while you get over it. I've not been that strong anymore though. It varies (1x a day to 1x a week to 1x a month).

If I didn't want to approach, I still wasn't going to approach. Approaching women/ getting out in the field is a strong decision that YOU HAVE TO MAKE! There's no special article or magical pill that'll get you to do that. It's one of those things you have to do on your OWN!

 

[T Money]

The first time I did this whole "I will stop masturbating and force myself to get more women" thing...it worked. I didn't masturbate for about a month and I think I slept with I like 2 or 3 girls that month...one of them a "meet and beat" or "one-night-stand." Sometimes it works. Other times it doesn't:

About a month ago I decided to do it again. And I got opposite results. Unfocused at work, afraid to approach, etc. I masturbated and seriously the next day I felt back in the game. It's wierd, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. It's all about your frame of mind.

Everything in moderation though. The body likes a drip system...everything balanced. The body would rather have a drop of water every second all day then 8 glasses spread out...or one bite of food every 12 minutes than 3 square meals...you get the point. I'm not saying make a damn schedule but everything in moderation...just remember that.

 

[banGbro]

Im giving it a go, once a week. Today is 2nd day, Im so fvcking horny!

Yesterday I deleted all my porn, it felt bad. Right now Im thinking about this one chick like every five seconds. I dont know I will last a week, maybe I should start a journal?

 

[JayCamx23]

i just made it to my 7th day a few days ago...felt great. ive made a few attempts over the last month to quit altogether after i was told that one of my friends sincerely hasnt done it since last may after he got really upset after breaking up with his ex for a long time, then just dropped the habit