That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Congratulations on your up to date news department. Your Chanbel 9 news vid is 10 months old and everyone already knows Russel Brand is a head case.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
We need a website that only posts good news, heartwarming stories, and such.
I could have posted a much newer video from the detention centers in Australia. I was just too lazy to find one. Didn't know that the date mattered that much. The situation down under hasn't got better if you wanna know.
My point is people fail to see the bi
Lmao, we never had any of this. The only "quarantine" we have is the authorities telling people to "go home" and "self isolate"
Please do, if you have time to post on the forum, surely you can find time for some factual proof of your claims. Clock is ticking…
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I can easily tell neither of you actually live in Australia, Imagine thinking we have concentration camps for the anti vaxxers. If you keep watching these youtube videos you will end up thinking Australia is the same as China which btw actually has concentration camps and is the one who created this virus which you all seem to ignore for some reason and instead start fighting against your own governments instead of the real enemy which is China.
So Russel Brand is now a nut case because he is a free thinker that ask questions?
Everyone who thinks for themselves and doesn't just 'go with the flow' is labeled a 'nutcase' or marginalized in some way.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No thanks, but I do have a thing about seeing up to date current information and conspiracy agendas not covered by reputable news sources.
Yeah. Sadly it seems to be that way.
Channel 9 is the same channel that airs things like this. If this is your source then it's not very credible.
Did you even watch the video with the girl talking about how it was to be in the detetion camp? She is even showing video clips that she took there.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Anti vaxxers like you are what Lenin referred to as "useful idiots".Did you even watch the video with the girl talking about how it was to be in the detetion camp? She is even showing video clips that she took there.
Let me help you with that and see the time of the video to that part of the clip:
Still denying they exist?
Ok, sure, continue with your pipedream then.
amp.abc.net.au
I taken all freaking vaccines that exist, just not the covid-19 does that make me a anti-vaxxer?
Imagine pretending that the Virus China created and unleashed onto the world doesn't exist.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
