"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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frivolousz21

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How is everyone doing?

its been 2 weeks..and I can say ive vered off course..when we started..I didnt need weeks 1 and 2. so ive been studying here..and trying to add as much information and phylosiphy as I can.

and Ive come up with a few tips that might help you out.

1. Love yourself--no matter what you do with this bootcamp and no matter how many women you meet..it wont be real until you love yourself...you are your best friend, your partener..only you are with you everymoment of everyday..unless ur trippin on some good drugs!:D

2. SELF CONFIDENCE..notice i said SELF..not just confidence. Because you can be confident in things you do..but not in yourself.

3. Attitude...dont get down..dont ever get down. stay positive..stay the course.
John Wayne said"courage is when your scared to death..and you saddle up anyways"

4. AFC tendencies....watch them...make sure you dont do the AFC things that got you in this mess in the 1st place. stop feeling sorry for your self..and get out there and dominate like your supposed.

they dont say Men are Bigger, faster, and stronger for no reason. Because we are. even you skinny kids with no muscle..are still 60 percent stronger than a women. that makes u the dominate leader..so start acting like the dominate leader you are!


week starts today fellas..now the fun begins!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I could have done better, as I have posted in my Boot Camp thread. I have all of the qualities you spoke about, but there is one more issue that I think a lot of us suffer with:

Not making an effort! That really is what this boot camp is about for a lot of us isn't it? I burned out my AFC a long time ago, and have done well with ladies that fell in my lap. But I don't feel like I can go out and meet new women very easily. I don't make an effort to go out the way I should, I don't approach women I find attractive in public places, and I'm not as friendly to everyone as I would like to be (though that has seen a lot of improvement because of the boot camp.)

So while I'm not an AFC in the traditional sense, I would say I am one when it comes to approaching women. Hence why I'm in this boot camp.
 

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that is percisely how I am.

I just dont find motivation..I want too...who doenst want lots of women around and to talk too. I see them out there..and I just think well I dont really care..

more like I dont feel motivated enough. I guess thats content..but I dont want to be content..so this week 3..its time to start pushing the envelope!
 

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Well frivolous I think a big part of BC is following it to the letter. I myself didn't think there could be much benefit to week 1 but I was way off.

My motivation is just trying to stick to it and not skip any steps. Meeting women will follow (I hope).
 

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ALRIGHT WEEK 3 STARTS...IF YOU ARE STUCK ON WEEK 1 AND 2..THEN KEEP GOING WITH THEM..AND START COLD APPORACHING WOMEN YOU WOULD LIKE TO DATE.

REMEMBER ITS IS OK AT THIS POINT TO GET REJECTED...IF YOU GET REJECTED..REMEMBER WHY YOUT THINK THIS IS..AND ELIMINATE THAT.

REMEMBER YOU ARE THE ALPHA MALE.!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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gentlemen,
I just finished week 3 bootcamp and I'd have to say it was a lot easier than I expected. It's a VERY gradual step up from week 2 and as long as you felt good doing that, talking to HBs won't present you with too many problems. Seven days is a long time

Looks like the initial field has been considerably reduced.....don't let yourself become a quitter too! we can do this
 

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Tony Robbins uses a phrase that stuck with me.

its called LIMITING BELIEFS. I know some if not alot of you started this all pumped..then got let down when you let ur subconcious mind creep in. and now your sitting there reading this...saying I cant do this!.

yes you cant..

RAISE STANDERDS
STOP LIMITING BELIEFS
TAKE ACTION
 

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wellllllllllllllll....

I believe that these bootcamps you guys do will most defiantly help out guys get over some forms of shyness, but at the same time I must ask, damn it, dont you guys have any money to make or workouts to do, or classes to attend, or anything else to do? What a waste of time and energy in my opinion, if you would put half that energy into your future, man........the sky is the limit. But of course, seeing that most guys here are still looking for the ANSWER and the REVELATION in how women work, how to get women and everything, I will leave you alone.

PVSSY-EATER OUT
 
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