"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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For the texting non-believers

AttackFormation

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This is what you can get from a girl when you use text and video messages, ie. just the same as you would in reality. That's a girl I haven't even met yet. There's a reason why romantic and erotic literature sells, and it's not because they open the book in half and use the paper to rub their **** with but because you can stimulate a woman by her brain too.

If you can't keep her interest over text it's because you are not her priority and/or your game isn't as tight as it could be, not because texting sucks. @Poon King said something I think is loosely related to that recently, when he basically said that women who have you as a priority won't lose interest over waiting for you. And for guys who are recovering AFCs, texting is a great place to take your L-plates off mentally because you can think about and analyse every line for what works and doesn't. It just sucks for AFCs because they would do that to obsess and become needy instead of improving their game and getting into a good, relaxed frame.

Obviously you still wanna meet up with girls ASAP because that's the point, but it's time to move with the times.

Happy hunting guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Juanto

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Personally I try to stay away from texting as I dont feel I´m very good at it, so mainly I text to setup dates or as replies to something they might text me first.

How do you go about teasing them AttackFormation?
 

Jetleg

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No mate, i still disagree.

If a chick likes a guy, she will slways want to meet ASAP. Otherwise her IL are low.

Low IL = waste of time.
 

Bingo-Player

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interest level and texting has a direct link

the longer she takes to respond to you the lower her interest level is

a chick whos keen on you wont risk taking longer than 15 mins to respond , unless there is extreme circumstances that would allow her to take her longer

but that would obviously only happen once or twice
 

The Duke

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I've had a ton of success increasing attraction by texting during the initial stages of dating. I keep it light, fun, flirty, charming, and fast moving. I can use about anything as a springboard to say something funny/slightly sechsual. Its no different than flirting in person.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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