For The New Year Delete Everybody That You Don't Actually Speak To

[Maximus Rex]

Rex is VERY PROUD to say that the total number of people in his phone directory is 38 and the total number of Facebook friends he has is 57. See, I'm only interested in having people on my phone and one my Facebook page that I ACTUALLY KNOW AND SPEAK WITH REGULARLY. When I get a chick's number, I put it on the memo pad app on my phone. As far as friending her on Facebook, Rex doesn't even bother to ask. Hell, Rex is only interested in having female Facebook friends that he's actually seen naked.

I don't have this desire to be vicariously a part of people's lives via social media. If I want to talk to them, I'll visit them when I'm in California or I'll call them, also I don't find most people's lives that interesting, especially if I'm not in regular contact with them.

So between now and the New Year go through through your phone and social media thingies and proceed to delete people that you don't have regular contact with. For some you that's going to be a problem because Facebook and Instagram is the only way that you're able to keep up with the goings on of your oneitis, but remember, you're not going to hit that anyway, so do like Teddy Pendergrass said and "Let It Go."

Once deleted all of this useless people from your life, only add people that you're ACTUALLY KICKING IT WITH and as far chicks, do like your boy Rex and only add her if you've seen her naked, to so otherwise only feeds her ego and effectively makes you one of her legionnaires.

 

[HumbleNinja]

Rex is VERY PROUD to say that the total number of people in his phone directory is 38 and the total number of Facebook friends he has is 57. See, I'm only interested in having people on my phone and one my Facebook page that I ACTUALLY KNOW AND SPEAK WITH REGULARLY. When I get a chick's number, I put it on the memo pad app on my phone. As far as friending her on Facebook, Rex doesn't even bother to ask. Hell, Rex is only interested in having female Facebook friends that he's actually seen naked.

I don't have this desire to be vicariously a part of people's lives via social media. If I want to talk to them, I'll visit them when I'm in California or I'll call them, also I don't find most people's lives that interesting, especially if I'm not in regular contact with them.

So between now and the New Year go through through your phone and social media thingies and proceed to delete people that you don't have regular contact with. For some you that's going to be a problem because Facebook and Instagram is the only way that you're able to keep up with the goings on of your oneitis, but remember, you're not going to hit that anyway, so do like Teddy Pendergrass said and "Let It Go."

Once deleted all of this useless people from your life, only add people that you're ACTUALLY KICKING IT WITH and as far chicks, do like your boy Rex and only add her if you've seen her naked, to so otherwise only feeds her ego and effectively makes you one of her legionnaires.

I agree for the most part so long as it's some people you've no chance in re-connecting with. Some people just simply get busy and you drift apart. Those people you can keep if things didn't end bad or you just both got extremely busy with other things. You don't have to delete them all. I do agree cut off the dead ends and wastes of future time.


You'd also want to delete them from your online cell phone company website backups as even IF you delete them off your phone they can re-appear due to you having an online backup being updated to your phone. Some dudes half azz that and just delete off their phones knowing that number is still saved on their online cellphone accounts.

 

[VladPatton]

I agree with you 100%. I think I have 16 people on my Facebook! I give zero fux about that. And for the phone, if I don't hear from you or get a text for 30 days, it's an automatic delete. I love seeing girls' phones with 324 contacts and they basically message/talk about 4 people on average. Hey, whatever makes you feel like a celebrity.

 

[Mr Wright]

Maybe for your generation but when you're 16-25, having like <100 friends on your facebook just raises unnecessary alarm bells. Granted you dont need 1000+ but a really low number is just weird.

The only people I delete are ex-girlfriends, random hook ups and people who have actively done something to piss me off.

Having contacts can be useful, it's not all about being so god damn alpha that it starts to hurt. You never know what someone can bring to the table, I keep chicks numbers for a while, when it comes to a holiday I hit them up. You never know what their situation is, you may have come a close second to an ex but once hes completely out of the picture, you could be up. You may have annoyed her but she might have forgotten what it was over time.

I have girls on my facebook from all over Europe + R.O.W(met all of them in London) and I know they'll be back to London one day and since I hit them up once a quarter to see how they are, they will contact me when they come over. Havent had a chance to see all of them naked because of logistics but I know they'd hook up when they come back over.

Putting a chick on the back burner > Removing her from your life

Just dont place too much value on it and you'll be fine.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Wtf????

Maybe for your generation but when you're 16-25, having like <100 friends on your facebook just raises unnecessary alarm bells. Granted you dont need 1000+ but a really low number is just weird.

Let get this straight, people actually sit around and have discussions about the number of virtual friends people have on a social networking site? You're telling me that it's ACTUALLY better to have 200 people as FB, 185 of which you never see or have communication with off of that site? People in that age group actually think it's "weird?" I sincerely hope that that school of thought is purely a European thing. If that line of thought has permeated the world's consciousness, then humanity is f*cked.

Having contacts can be useful, it's not all about being so god damn alpha that it starts to hurt.

When did I say that it didn't.

You never know what someone can bring to the table, I keep chicks numbers for a while, when it comes to a holiday I hit them up.

You young niggas put waaaay to much on the power of social media. Unless you've have made a positive and strong impact in position, then the chick really isn't trying to f*ck with you. Harry did two excellent podcasts on "Future Speak," and "Maybe Dates,." Rex doesn't deal with LTR's in anyway.

You never know what their situation is, you may have come a close second to an ex but once hes completely out of the picture, you could be up. You may have annoyed her but she might have forgotten what it was over time.

Dude if she's feeling you that much she's either going to stay in contact with you by seeing in person or she'll hit you up. Sh*t that you're talking about is some straight up orbiting sh*t.

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]I have girls on my facebook from all over Europe + R.O.W(met all of them in London) and I know they'll be back to London one day....

Jesus is coming back one day too.

Havent had a chance to see all of them naked because of logistics but I know they'd hook up when they come back over.

Rex sincerely hopes that with all of the effort that you're putting into these chicks, that you'll smash some.

Putting a chick on the back burner > Removing her from your life

Having chicks in your social circle that are readily available for sex or hanging out much, much, >>>>> Putting a chick on the back burner.

 

[Mr Wright]

It's a generational thing, each generation weeps for the next because they dont understand it. To you we may be self involved little "niggas" who have no hope but hey...

If you're a normal socially adjusted 20 year old who is still in education and regularly goes out socialising, having less than 100 friends on facebook is weird. You can hate on it and call it whatever you want but the only people I know who would fit that category are outcasts. No one will necessarily discuss it overtly but I'm sure other socially adjusted people in my age bracket would agree that it's just something. It's like when you were a kid and everyone used to watch the same programme and discuss it at school the next day, the kid who didnt watch it, missed out. It's probably something I will care less about with age but where I go to school, I know a lot of people and go out every weekend. My extended social circle is about easily 150-200 people at my university alone and I dont even have them all on FB.


I do agree with you though, you need to make a strong first impression, to make the rest of the interactions go easier. This is why I love daygame because you can go in really hard, it's probably the only time she'll get hit on properly that day and she will remember it if you make a good impression. I've been told this by girls I've hit on.


I'm only 21 but I've put a lot of effort it and screwed up a hell of a lot, had some pretty sh!tty nights, had plenty of dead end numbers(now deleted) but I can recognise when a chick is a no-hoper and when you might just need to put in a bit of effort. I'm down for deleting chicks who dont reply but just because they havent hit you up first, that means nothing. Talk to them, be cheeky, flirt, try and get them out. A text is such low investment, you can spare a few to see if you can get a girl out.