"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey, if possible, for all the female posters (or at least those would like it) can you call them "Don Juanitas" on their post names?

(Perhaps this might encourage more female posting.)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How about putting age and sex categories in your profiles? They are easy to access from each post, and you don't clutter up the name area. Looks to me like the title is used mainly to distinguish between beginners and masters. So call them Beginners and Masters. Maybe have the "Don Juan" title optional. In that case, my title would be "Beginner", since I wouldn't opt for the Don Juan title, nor for Don Juanita.
 
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