"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For the master don juans: How have your relationships changed in the past five to ten years?

Bobbylively

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I'm interested in hearing about the progress that the men here have made, whether that be from social anxiety to dating, or from dating to plate spinning, or from plate spinning to marriage, or to marriage to going your own way?

How was your life before the community?

When and what was the turning point that made you want to change?

How do you like your new life? Are there any down sides/negatives?

Whats something you want us to know about your new way of life?


Thanks, I appreciate any feedback.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bigneil

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Let's just look at the last 1 year.

1) I kept a contract for a whole year with Apple, my most important contract to date.
2) I worked a second contract and briefly a third, bringing in an extra $100,000+ this year, which I saved.
3) I got a new apartment with a much better view.
4) I redecorated my apartment with new furniture and entertainment.
5) I got a better car with rear wheel drive and posi, but under $40K.
6) I dated the hottest girl I ever saw for 9 months, ending things on my terms this month.
7) I build a photography portfolio featuring a woman who regularly rated 98-99.

The down side is I loved my last girl more than any other girl and it won't be easy to replace her.

Every day you have to work hard to do something to improve your life, romance and job.
 

wifehunter

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Plates plates plates...is TOO many. I can't remember some of their names, so I refer to them as 'the payless shoe store girl', etc.
 
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