"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For the master don juans: How have your relationships changed in the past five to ten years?

Bobbylively

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I'm interested in hearing about the progress that the men here have made, whether that be from social anxiety to dating, or from dating to plate spinning, or from plate spinning to marriage, or to marriage to going your own way?

How was your life before the community?

When and what was the turning point that made you want to change?

How do you like your new life? Are there any down sides/negatives?

Whats something you want us to know about your new way of life?


Thanks, I appreciate any feedback.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bigneil

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Let's just look at the last 1 year.

1) I kept a contract for a whole year with Apple, my most important contract to date.
2) I worked a second contract and briefly a third, bringing in an extra $100,000+ this year, which I saved.
3) I got a new apartment with a much better view.
4) I redecorated my apartment with new furniture and entertainment.
5) I got a better car with rear wheel drive and posi, but under $40K.
6) I dated the hottest girl I ever saw for 9 months, ending things on my terms this month.
7) I build a photography portfolio featuring a woman who regularly rated 98-99.

The down side is I loved my last girl more than any other girl and it won't be easy to replace her.

Every day you have to work hard to do something to improve your life, romance and job.
 

wifehunter

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Plates plates plates...is TOO many. I can't remember some of their names, so I refer to them as 'the payless shoe store girl', etc.
 
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