"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For the DJ skeptics

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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West- I agree with what Allen wrote there 100 percent.

that may of been the first post I read when I got here.


of course if ur a loser afc, JBY is useless...


I think the disagreements here would be solved much easier if everyone was talking to each other in person..and not typing..

its easy to miscontrue..and im sure we all do it
 
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Just be yourself is good advice to the person that has the right frame of mind (consciously or not)... but not for the person that is likely asking for advice.

I hear it's easy to pick up chicks at church, so having faith might not be so bad in itself either :p

Anyway, it's time to bring this board back to the basics,,, they've gotten out of hand.
 
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