For the connoisseurs of younger women

[Luthor Rex]

For those fools who want an intellectually stimulating woman - find a scientist!!! You are a fool because you are deceiving yourself!!! Men do not wake up and look for, "An intellectual woman" - they look for a woman that pleases their eyes! Attraction is what ignites your pursuit --- not her intellect! Would you pursue a 600 pound ragged intellectual??? No? Then shut up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Beauty, in a woman, is closely tied to youth!!!

It would be nice a woman could actually understand me when I speak...

Which I realize is asking a lot of the modern woman...

 

[jophil28]

It would be nice a woman could actually understand me when I speak...

Which I realize is asking a lot of the modern woman...

It would be even better if she could respond without saying something adolescent.
Which I realize is asking even more of a modern woman !

Some first dates give you brain damage - ( This is from a recent date witrh a 38 year old )

Me, " Would you like a bread stick?"
She , " Aren't they so cute- just like little boys made out of bread."
Me, ( thinking about how to escape later) " Yes, they are cute - just like me when i was 8 ."
She, " Oh, so you really were 8 ? - I was 8 once but I was a real small kid. Maybe I was only 6 ?"
Me, " (feeling tired already) I hear the Rolling Stones are coming to town."
She. " MY mother loves them - she and her friends are going. She is 65 years old ".
Me, " Oh really , are there wheelchair ramps at the theater ?
She, " My Mom is real fit -she walks to the Bingo hall every Tuesday."
Me, " You mom travel with her own oxygen ?"
She, " Huh ?"
Me, ' "Never mind - maybe you should call the theater and make sure that they have hearing aid batteries at the candy counter,"
She, " Why."
Me, "Never mind."
Me, " You need to tell your mother that if Keith Richards dies on stage that technically she is entitled to a partial refund.".
She, ' Huh. Is he sick?"
Me , " Been sick since 1966. Its only a matter of when, you know."
She, " OKAY !! I will tell mom to watch him."
She, " you know so much. How do know this stuff. "
Me, " I subscribe to WHO magazine ...I'm an intellectual ...."
She smiles in admiration ....

I think that i dozed off right about then ...

 

[SoCalMike]

It would be even better if she could respond without saying something adolescent.
Which I realize is asking even more of a modern woman !

Some first dates give you brain damage - ( This is from a recent date witrh a 38 year old )

Me, " Would you like a bread stick?"
She , " Aren't they so cute- just like little boys made out of bread."
Me, ( thinking about how to escape later) " Yes, they are cute - just like me when i was 8 ."
She, " Oh, so you really were 8 ? - I was 8 once but I was a real small kid. Maybe I was only 6 ?"
Me, " (feeling tired already) I hear the Rolling Stones are coming to town."
She. " MY mother loves them - she and her friends are going. She is 65 years old ".
Me, " Oh really , are there wheelchair ramps at the theater ?
She, " My Mom is real fit -she walks to the Bingo hall every Tuesday."
Me, " You mom travel with her own oxygen ?"
She, " Huh ?"
Me, ' "Never mind - maybe you should call the theater and make sure that they have hearing aid batteries at the candy counter,"
She, " Why."
Me, "Never mind."
Me, " You need to tell your mother that if Keith Richards dies on stage that technically she is entitled to a partial refund.".
She, ' Huh. Is he sick?"
Me , " Been sick since 1966. Its only a matter of when, you know."
She, " OKAY !! I will tell mom to watch him."
She, " you know so much. How do know this stuff. "
Me, " I subscribe to WHO magazine ...I'm an intellectual ...."
She smiles in admiration ....

I think that i dozed off right about then ...

:crackup:

Thanks for the laugh, I can relate.

I went on a date once, and the girl was pretty clueless about many things in life. When I would try to educate her, espeically on something that wasn't pleasant (like the Iraq war) she told me she'd "rather just remain ignorant". Those were her exact words, and no she wasn't joking!!

 

[Omen]

It happens with older girls too. I was talking about something that had an LED on it, and the girl (26) was like huh? I didnt expect her to know the exactly what it meant, but I expected her to go oh yeah. I mean LED lights are all over the place. :kick:

But my thought about younger girls are, they can be great, and some are smart, and some aren't. Some mature way quicker than guys, some dont.

Yes, they are good looking, and I love being around them. Most the time they have no baggage. BUT at the same time, they are just that...young.

I work with a girl who is 16 and she swears up and down she loves her boyfriend, and that they are practically engaged, and she does everything for him, and etc etc etc. And what makes her live is just him.

You'll hear this from that age to the age of 18 and even prob 20. I dont know when it really ends that you get out of that whole puppy love stage, or what not, but I will bet this...

The girl I work with in a few years wont be with her boyfriend. He'll change, and so will she. He's a bit older (not sure how much older) and in college. She is a Junior in high school, so my guess was he was prob a senior last year and is a freshman in college. She's one of those with a late b-day, so she's extra young.

Both of them dont know what they want and think they do. I told her... Well, looks like you have it all figured out, and good luck.

I kind of told her what she wanted to hear, though i'm sure they wont last. You dont know what love is, or a real relationship at 16, and just turning 16 5 months ago at that. YOU ARE A KID.

You are on cloud nine, and think you have it all figured out. I kind of feel bad for her when reality sets in, but we all have to learn our lessons. I was kind of at that point once in my life. And now that I am older, I can see the girl I thought I loved, wasn't the best for me.

The point being, any girl in her teens whether she is 16, 17, 18, 19, are probably all in the same boat. They THINK they know what they want but they dont. I dated living proof of that many years ago. She went marriage happy, and then did a 360. I think reality hit her.

So for me, while young girls can be great, we all know we cant have true relationships with them. You MAY get lucky, and find one that really works, and more power to you I guess. But none of us I hope rely on it.

While young girls are like that relationship wise, as in puppy love, and older ones aren't, this does NOT mean older ones cant be just as stupid.

I took out a girl who was 23 and she told me she really wanted to be lazy and do nothing when she got older.

I have had more intelligent conversations with 18yr old girls and hell 16yr old girls at work than the 23yr old one.

I mean look at that show age of love they had on. You had girls in their 20s who were dumb as a brick. They are all over the place.

Anyway, I love younger girls, but I just wont have a real relationship with them. Its not practical. And each guy has their own set of rules. I wont date a girl under 18. And yeah, some states are 16, but that's ridiculous. You have problems if you are going under 18 and are 25+

Again, no harm in taking them out, and having fun with them, but i'm not thinking in my mind... Damn, i'm gonna marry this 18yr old. And if you have that in your mind, you need some help. If it happens, just cause you date, and before you know it, you've dated 3yrs and are inseparable, then I guess go for it. Just dont plan that.

 

[STR8UP]

The point being, any girl in her teens whether she is 16, 17, 18, 19, are probably all in the same boat. They THINK they know what they want but they dont. I dated living proof of that many years ago. She went marriage happy, and then did a 360. I think reality hit her.

See, that's where you are mistaken!

Reality NEVER hits women, only a shift in their emotions.

It may seem that way on the surface, but what looks to you as a woman getting a reality check is simply a woman who lost interest in YOU.

Women must fixate on SOMETHING. It could be 100% YOU, It could be a percentage you and a percentage someone else (or other people), or if there is no one around it's likely going to be self pity. "Why oh why can't I find a decent man?"

Women never come to the realization that being single and alone is OK. NEVER.

Their constant quest is for "the prize" which is marriage.

 

[Omen]

See, that's where you are mistaken!

Reality NEVER hits women, only a shift in their emotions.

It may seem that way on the surface, but what looks to you as a woman getting a reality check is simply a woman who lost interest in YOU.

Women must fixate on SOMETHING. It could be 100% YOU, It could be a percentage you and a percentage someone else (or other people), or if there is no one around it's likely going to be self pity. "Why oh why can't I find a decent man?"

Women never come to the realization that being single and alone is OK. NEVER.

Their constant quest is for "the prize" which is marriage.

That's probably more of a correct statement and should have probably been said a shift in emotions.

I can kind of see this with the girl I work with. She talks to me quite a bit, but at the same time she told me she tells her boyfriend everything. So I am pretty sure the guys knows about me. Not that anything goes on between us, but I see the emotion thing from her by her actions.

She swears up and down this guy is for her. But one day she filled out one of those dumb things on MySpace and it said... Do you miss someone? And she said... Dearly. Then it was not you _____ lol and put my name in there.

The girl thinks about me, and I know she does, and I bet money she has some emotions there whether she admits it or not. We are going to a party for work Sat, and she said she was looking forward to it and she cant wait. Is it the fact of the party, or the combo of party and me being there too? I'm going to have to say ME. She never admits she looks forward to parties, cause a party is a party right? Well i'm not at the other ones, and since this is a work one, she is extra excited. I can read her like the back of my hand.

Again, she is young, and I cant have anything to do with her now, but she was like.. I've been with this guy for 2yrs. Oh wow, that put her at 14 when she started dating him, so I am sure she knows what she wants :crackup:

What is new for her, is that at 16, you can finally get a job, and you are around more people, and where I work there is a big age gap. So when you dont have a job and are in high school, you are normally around high school kids, but then you start being around older guys, and then your emotions change, you start wondering about older guys, paying attention to them, and start experiencing something totally new. A kind of "what if" deal.

Personally, I think her emotions are starting to change, and will even more. She'll start seeing more and more as she gets older.

Right now though, she feels stable, so she goes with it. Come time though, college boy boyfriend who is a freshman will end up changing too, and she'll probably be history since she has one year left of high school, and he will either be entering year 2 or 3.

Oh well, its fun to just see how people change, and one day I can say see... I told you. Then she'll say you know, I thought I knew what I wanted, but I didn't. I was like 16 back then and just young and dumb.