"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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James45

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Just got back from breakfast. Sat down near a sexai HB7 who was half french and half italian, such sexy lips. I sat down said Good Morning in an energetic tone and asked 'Hows life' - we talk for about 40 minutes from then lol and I'm now running late.

Although, she did most of the talking and story telling which wasn't good, but I did learn ways on expanding points, like she was talking about how she went to greece and she loved it - then I asked how was the night life in greece (since we are students) and she talked about it for 15-10 mins lol non-stop. I smiled and encouraged while she was talking.

But I need to grow the confidence of story telling by taking one of her points and talking about it enthusiastically.

Improvement is on the way, will create and update my own approach journal
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MikeYikes122

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Man I wish I was still in college. You guys have no idea how awesome it is until it's over.

Here is a quick tip for all of you.

If you're preparing for a test in one of your classes and you have a ton of HBs in the class with you, make sure you hit up the library the night before the test. Get there early and canvas the place often. I guarantee you will see a ton of attractive chics from your class there studying, and sometimes they will even be alone. It is so easy and natural to approach them because obviously you're both going to be studying for the same test. You sit down, you study with her, you get to know her and when you're done studying you pull off an instant date. Just say something like, "Well I need a break before I go home and study some more, let's get a cup of coffee at the cafe." After a long session of studying, 90 percent of girls will be down for some coffee.

I pulled this so many times in college. I used to actually look forward to tests :crackup:.

Enjoy college and if it's your final semester do as little as you possibly can to get by, because in the working world one semester of average grades won't make a difference. I'm speaking from experience here.
 

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The Cafeteria is a great way to make cold approaches. There are tons of HB's there. Today I opened a HB8 & HB7, talked for 20 mins. Great way to hone your social skillset.
 

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Evolution said:
The Cafeteria is a great way to make cold approaches. There are tons of HB's there. Today I opened a HB8 & HB7, talked for 20 mins. Great way to hone your social skillset.
thats awesome......do you approach girls eating alone.....or groups..?

I approached a girl sitting alone eating her lunch....turns out shes in one of my class.
 

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I got a quick question


I'm in uni, and I've been trying to hook up. However, whenever I call girls, to set up dates, they usually flake on me at date time or don't answer their cells. Should I just keep trying, or just take numbers from girls at parties?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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James45

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I've done that twice. I strike up a convo and they always tell me their name first by saying something like "I'm HB7 btw " - which i then respond with "i'm James, nice to meet you" - is the "nice to meet you" lame? Now that i think about it - saying that doesn't really fit with my stud-like image. What would be something sexier to respond with?

I dont really know what it means for the girl to initiate the name exchange, maybe that shes simply interested in you?
 

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I will start 2nd year at the college next week, but I am tired of being and looking at the same people and girls (I study computer science, 2 HB or less). So, I will get into newbies college classrooms and try DJing some girls. I will loose 2 days of class but that will WORTH a lot. I suggest you all to do the same. Try to stay in different newsbies classroms each day during the first week of class. Haha I think this will be very interesting!

And the best thing: you talk to the girl, #close or kiss close! If you don't even get the number, **** OFF HER! You will not even see her anymore!
 

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college is awesome, especially when you have a cool prof who will entertain some humorous or sarcastic comments from their students. Throw some clever and witty remarks out there to boost your social value
 

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ok, so i just came to college...im a first semester freshman....i need major help guys! coming in for the spring semester is tough! everyone is already clicky, and ****...it sucks. any advice?
 

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theguy351 said:
ok, so i just came to college...im a first semester freshman....i need major help guys! coming in for the spring semester is tough! everyone is already clicky, and ****...it sucks. any advice?
Just be friendly with everyone bro. Take lots of classes, meet lots of people, it's fun experience man don't frown upon it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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theguy351

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jdbman11 said:
Just be friendly with everyone bro. Take lots of classes, meet lots of people, it's fun experience man don't frown upon it.
yea, but coming in mid year, it makes it even harder, in the dorm and cafetieria and stuff....classes, ok i can deal with that, they r for learning anyway.
 

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Wow.

If I only knew then what I know now...I'd have 30 kids.:D

Great stuff.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have that ****ty approach anxiety so I plan on having my flask on me at all times during the first week. The tipsy feeling off of a few shots is just enough for me to become invincible and defeat AA haha. I'm upset with myself that I have to rely on liquor to approach good looking women, but whatever :|

Going to Boston University so should be sweet. The entire city is filled with students (there's 10+ colleges within a 3mi radius) so I am very excited :D
 

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HolyG said:
I got a quick question


I'm in uni, and I've been trying to hook up. However, whenever I call girls, to set up dates, they usually flake on me at date time or don't answer their cells. Should I just keep trying, or just take numbers from girls at parties?
Instead of trying to setup a day2 tell her to meet up with you later on, on the same day
 
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