"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For the Asian homies complaining about the white girls...

learningtopimp

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I was at a graduation brunch for a friend yesterday in Santa Monica (we all go to UCLA, he graduated but I'm only a junior so I have a year left). I saw a white family, grandma, aunts uncles parents the whole deal, along with the graduate, their daughter (HB 8 blonde white girl with great face and body) and an Asian dude about 5'9 and preety cut, along with another white guy who was graduating from UCLA and an HB 7 Asian girl. As it turns out, from a little convo I had with the Asian girl, this HB blonde is the girlfriend of this Asian dude for like the last 6 or 7 months, and she wanted him to meet her parents. It was interesting seeing the girls dad and grandfather talking to this dude, a man of color, who probably is banging the **** out of their daughter. :D

This guy (I think he was Korean, maybe Chinese) had several things helping him.

1. Looks and style: I can't front, he was a decent looking guy, not so much that he had a great face as he was in great shape and very stylish, wearing dress shoes, a multicolored button down shirt, and those jeans which are a little faded.
2. Confidence: This dude was completely relaxed and at ease talking to the girl's family, was very affectionate with the girl, and generally seemed laid back, confident, and personable. He was very courteous and friendly to everyone who worked there, he looked at everyone when he talked to them, and he had a preety measured, even tone. He conveyed this through his posture and facial expression.

So remember, it is possible for an Asian guy to get white girls, even hot ones. I've seen several of these in LA nowadays. You just need to understand there's a certain way of going about getting any kind of girl, of any race, and you need to follow these tactics.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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white_hype

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it is possible for anyone to "get" anyone... enough of this i cant get this "girl" b/c im white/black/asian/orange whatever, those are just excuses and its fvcking annoying
 

Le Parisien

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Yeah, just stop the obsession now.
It's really getting annoying with all the stupid Asian threads recently.
:mad:

But still by the way, California is different from the rest of the USA. Asians have "higher status" than in the rest of the country.
Especially at UCLA. I was "shocked" when I visited a French homie there last summer. Asians literrally "own" the place.
Ok ok, I'm exagerating, but you guys get the idea. Just come to Pennsylvania and you will understand what I mean...
:D
 

learningtopimp

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Hahaha yeah there's quite a few Asians here...I'm an Indian dude and there's a lot of us, but even more like Chinese, Koreans, Filipinos, etc. But the reason I posted this thread is to do what you said, to overcome their feelings, because people seem to think they are condemend to a certain type of girl because of their race, which isn't true.
 

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I am the prototype Chinese DJ!
:D


I'm funny, smooth and I workout to be more sexier than ever!
I attract women of all races. They want me as their prize and I don't care because I can get any of them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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