"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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frivolousz21

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Listen, I am going to say there arent many DJ's left at this site.

most of them move on once they get there life's where they want them to be.

and I can tell you I am about there myself...but I work a lot and enjopy coming here.

I can see there has been a recent coming out party of AFC's who have spent the last 10 months KBJ'ing me. and always calling me out when im talking about real life experience....now I realize they were reading straight from the bible...and since the bible didnt go along with my more sappy sensative version of life they didnt agree and called me out.


Oh well...I dont care..no hard feelings..anywho..

I would suggest instead of coming here and giving up..ONE of you start a bootcamp..im talking a real bootcamp. Get Emails, Aims, get it together....hold each other accountable.

arent you sick of being in the rut you are in?

its time to face your fears....women arent shyt..im telling you from REAL LIFE EXPIERENCE..WOMEN ARE AN AMAZING THING.

they will bring you more pleasure than anything in the LIFE.....now stop being afraid of them...they want you just as much as you want them.

get out there and LEARN..no more INTERNET HOOKUPs...get out there and learn..real life learning.

you cant play sports on a CPU
you cant play Guitar in a CPU
you cant enjoy the wonderful world we have on a CPU

NOW DO IT!:woo:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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