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For singles: how's this strategy for V-day?

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I'm thinking of going to Starbucks and/or a bookstore tomorrow evening. If you see any girls there, they obviously must be single. Do you think there will be women in these places on this special day? Never tried this before.
 

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Tommorw evening( being valentines day) expect the book stores to be virtually empty and if they arent expect COUPLES their and dont bank on it being a special time for single ladies to be their, it will be just another "day" at the office at the book stores. Think of other ideas if you single, give some1 you have a crush on, or go see a movie with a girl "friend" of yours.
 

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I would imagine it's the best day to pick up because the single girls will want more than ever to find somebody, especially on a day which is widely expected to be romantic and all.
 

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Hmmm, i dont think girls get all uppity and desperate just because of some commercial holiday. If you're in a relationship, then it's a special day to commemorate, but if you're single, it's just like any other day.
 

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I was thinking of going around on V day and just asking random girls "Do you have a valentine?"

But maybe that's too pathetic. Not sure if it would work.
 

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Originally posted by wiggadude
I was thinking of going around on V day and just asking random girls "Do you have a valentine?"

But maybe that's too pathetic. Not sure if it would work.
I like a lead in similar I may try:

"Hello there..no valentine tonight?"

Should be a good opener for a bar/club/bookstore/coffee shop.
 

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That sounds pretty good. Hell, maybe I'll use this tomorrow night on V-Day in the coffee shop?? Nothing to lose I guess.

Originally posted by Avatar
I like a lead in similar I may try:

"Hello there..no valentine tonight?"

Should be a good opener for a bar/club/bookstore/coffee shop.
 

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V-Day is a great day to get drunk and make a fool of yourself in public. Upgrade!
 

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That's what I'm thinking.

Fellas, Tomorrow let's all go out and do at least 5 approaches!

Originally posted by PeeGee
I would imagine it's the best day to pick up because the single girls will want more than ever to find somebody, especially on a day which is widely expected to be romantic and all.
 

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good idea. It's a good way to sniff out singles wihtout having to ask them.
 

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