"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Found this on this pickup site forum. Their games seems quite like ours as in natural but it's always good now and then to have openers.

http://www.thesocialman.com/forum/showthread.php?t=926

For those who doesn't want to click link:

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When you are getting to know her, ask a couple trick questions that have ridiculous answers. So far, I have tried this a couple times online and it has worked incredibly well...

For example:
"Coke or pepsi? Be careful because I can tell a lot about a woman who drinks one over the other..."

She will respond:
"Coke/pepsi"

Then you reply:
"That is incorrect."

She will definitely be confused... You then reply,
"Trick question.. the answer is "bear"."

This sounds incredibly dorky, but the girls always get a huge kick out of it. It makes getting to know someone, fun for both people"

I've leared some quite cool texting game from this site, which is one of my weaknesses.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Oh and of course if you use your imagniation a bit you can use this in anykind of way possible.
 

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I think the very best opener is to walk up to girl and say "hi."
 

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Lexington said:
I think the very best opener is to walk up to girl and say "hi."
Yes I agree. "Hi, how are you?" "What's up?"
It's just that sometimes you might want to try something new.
This doesn't even need to be an opener, just random conversation.
 

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Talking to a new girl, is all about confidence through body language, eye contact, and smiling. Its literally as simple as that, these stupid pickups way over complicate things.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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