"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
for my 600th post, I've finally realized something...
- Thread starter Wiesman44
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
now that's a pointless post......why are you trying to be funny like this...at least you could have told a joke or something....
:moon:
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
KarmaSutra
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" I wish I knew how to quit you! "Wiesman44 said:
Fag.:crackup:
Docs
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Of course, you're really saying.
"I'm gay, I want you, buttfvck me Biatch!!!" :crackup:
BBX
Master Don Juan
yes
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonJuanForever
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Socialreject
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I happen to know a ghey guy who is totally not AFC and is actually extreemly masculine (asside form a couple fag tendancies obviously) and guess what? He's got to beat off other fags with a stick
So now this brings up another question... do feminine type fags actually respond to testosteron like women do?!
This thread get's a 7 on my weird sh!t-o-meter :woo:
chippendale
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