"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For Moderators...an Idea

tiburon

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YOU GUY SHOULD DO SOMETHING SO THAT EACH MEMEBER HAD AN ICON OR PICTURE THEY COULD UPLOAD AND WOULD BE SHOWN WHEN THEY POST ON THE LEFT ALONG WITH THE OTHER STUFF... I THINK THIS WILL MAKE THE SITE BETTER!!!

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TIBURON
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You mean an Avatar. Had them before. Allen got rid of them. Take it up with him in the Suggestions and Feedback forum. I'll help you get there...
 

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Here's another suggestion: prohibit people from writing with capital letters.
 
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