Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ah yes...another feminist tactic. When you can't silence someone who challenges you by all other methods, go cry to the moderators about how you've been victimized and demand that the person be banned.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well, I don't know about the other guys, but she's been everything but assertive to me. But then agains she is under the impression that I am a total d:ck because I argued with her about the submissive role of women and she took it totally personal. But that was yesterday.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I know, and there's nothing wrong with that generally speaking, I have no problem with that whatsoever!! But do you understand/agree with my main point? (I refuse to restate it again, on the principle
)@ rgeere
Essentially, yes, I would agree with that. That same point you made can be applied to the men I described in my initial post. If a guy on here is aggressive towards me and is insulting then I am going to perceive him in the same exact way a man would view a woman who just posted in an aggressive and insulting way towards him. It works two ways. And again...I have never made a habit of behaving in that manner first, but will not hesitate to if I am treated that way by someone else.Originally posted by sexual_intellectual
I know, and there's nothing wrong with that generally speaking, I have no problem with that whatsoever!! But do you understand/agree with my main point? (I refuse to restate it again, on the principle
If it works both ways, and they're only reacting to you being a female sosuave poster - its not really about men reacting to feminism any more, just manners between forum members.
s_i...actually, I do think he believes that all women (or most) are feminists. He has repeatedly called me one for the last 24 hours or so. In fact, him calling me one is what started this whole argument with him. And honestly, anyone who has been following this thread who has ever debated online with REAL feminists HAS to be shaking their head at just how much like one he is behaving. Hell, even someone who I don't get along with agreed that he did that when he implied that I need mental help and to be on medication. His behavior is very immature and emotional.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
It most certainly IS about feminism because the ones jumping at me for no reason almost always either call me a feminist or mention or refer to feminism in their diatribes. I know you're trying to be the peace maker here...but at the same time you just gotta call it like it is.Originally posted by sexual_intellectual
If it works both ways, and they're only reacting to you being a female sosuave poster - its not really about men reacting to feminism any more, just manners between forum members.
So this thread should be deleted and there should be a "make love not war - lets be nice to each other" thread!
Maybe you should flirt more with rgeere too - I think you'd make quite a match
I see, back to the same old stuff ... *yawn*Originally posted by ketostix
There you go Rgeere
He thinks you're a feminist according to the soft definition of feminism in another thread. "He who sets the definition wins the argument" - I happen to agree with your definition of feminism, and for that reason think he's wrong to call you one. He happens not to, and therefore calls you a feminist.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I know a girl who acts just like wyldfire in real life, attitude and everything. She use to sit with me all the time, and use to say the cutest things to me like, "Ohhh, look at the christmas tree; we should put you right on top of it."Originally posted by sexual_intellectual
Maybe you should flirt more with rgeere too - I think you'd make quite a match
Maybe it WAS Wyldfire, would explain a few things
I'll bet she has a different story about how things went to pot That stems from the fact that I am direct, blunt, and have no passive/aggressiveness. I just tell people the way I see it regardless of the outcome. Yeah, I get into trouble sometimes, but don't expect me to be putting sugar in your gastank or peeing on your tires any time soon.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.