For Like 7 Years!!...im To Young For This

[cesar]

firstly were can i being...ok ok
i went to an all boys school for like five years, and went to an college for
2 years which is full of manly surroundings, so there is no femele touch 'if
u know what im saying'.
so basically i havent been in an femele surroundings all my llife' so really
i havent got no girl 'mates... got a few but its just like,hey and bye short
conversations no mobile' or going out with any.

having conversations with the opposite sex its very much different,and even
guys, i cant keep an conversation going besides talking about sports which
comes boring to me, and gives people the impression im boring...
and even when seeing relatives, im 19...most of my relatives are in the
50's...i cant even keep an conversation with them. after talking about my
future and what im doing...

i havent really got that much mates either, because am much more open when i can trust people without no doubts.For me i dont know what to say to people sometimes u know' u try to talk to
someone ask a number of questions...then the conversation goes dead

i just want be one of those guys,that can talk endlessly in any type of
situation...and a person that people love to call!!...

i got alot of catching up to do!

Whats your advice??? because i really need it

 

[Bounce-It]

Good Luck.

Same situation as me before I found this site through google.

First things first read through the DJ Bible (link at the bottom of the page, Book of Pook and Weapons of Mass Seduction being then main two).
After I did this I felt great for about a week, and then realised I still wasn't going out to meet girls. Why? Because the confidence wasn't there. It doesn't come easily, and the only way it will is if you just go for it, forget OMG WTF SHES HOT, shes not better than you because of it.

Walk into shop's when you go into town to get something etc, if theres girls there your age, approach them, forget the fear. After doing loads of these approaches confidence comes naturally, dont worry if you stumble in conversation, in fact take a leaf out of fingers book and look her up and down with a twinkle in your eye and say 'Im glad I bothered to meet you'.

DO IT.

 

[Soyoushave]

My advice would be to start using full sentences that we can all read and understand, and just stop thinking and start acting