For how long do you loose interest in a girl after sex?

[Mistic]

I'm sure this varies for everyone.

For myself I have noticed that sometimes after having sex with a girl the first time, I have no desire to ever do it again, even if they are cool and attractive. We may remain friends, but the sexual attraction for me is over.

I have noticed that typically I loose sexual interest in a woman for at least a week, and usually no longer than a month. Most the girls in my rotation I see at these intervals.

Occasionally I hang with a girl who I could sleep with a few times a week, but it is very rare, and usually short lived.

I'm not sure exactly what the science is on this. Is this an alpha seed spreader natural trait? Does nature demand that certain males spread themselves far and wide, where other men are naturally fitted to have one partner?

It seems that some guys fit the relationship model, and dont get so bored with their partner, where for other guys, the idea of being condemned to fvck the same girl over and over is torturous.

 

[Scars]

Are these girls making you wait for sex or are you pounding them within a couple weeks of knowing them? For me, if I sleep with a girl fairly fast it is a red flag for me and I do lose interest. I also like variety, I guess you could say this is our biological makeup at work. However, and I'm sure most guys can relate.. the longer a girl makes you wait the more likely you are to stick with them. A smart girl will make a guy wait until he crosses the "point of no return". You know that point where you're like "damn, I actually like this girl" and that's how all these guys get suckered into relationships. Before they were dating you know they were just another guy like us, looking to hit it and quit it, but something happened to make them stay. It's called feelings. Maybe certain people just lack them more than others, or maybe those guys just settle with what they can get.. but I do hear where you're coming from. I can bang 7-8s consistently, but there is usually always something wrong with them. Red flags, party girls, *****s etc.. so my interest will diminish quick. But occasionally you find a 9 that has her head on straight that you want to keep around for awhile. I guess my question to you is. What kind of quality are these girls you are boning? High quality, low quality? How physically attracted to them are you? Were most of them drunk fvcks? On average how long does it take you to have sex with them after you first meet them? These are some variables you might want to look at and take into account.

 

[Amazing]

The chase is better than the catch..



it is all about the intimacy and her passion and perhaps some looks.

 

[Mistic]

I hook up with mostly well rounded, high quality women: as in, they have their **** together professionally, are attractive, and generally interesting.

I sleep with most women very quickly. I dont give them much choice. My seduction style is so charming and forward that I rarely get resistance. A couple times I was made to wait, months in one case, and the payoff did seem more rewarding, but i still lost interest fairly quickly.

Of course the main factor is "DONT ***!" It seems that cuming is directly related to lost interest. So if I know I want to hit it a few times, I hold back. It's more fun to give them 4 or 5 orgasms, then have your one anyway.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

*Mistic you tend to have histrionc personality style don´t you? Just a question, how do the girls feel after such seduction, do they feel used or not? Are they aware it´s just a fling? Do you keep them as your fan club or you let them go? I don´t really see a problem doing what you do as long as you don´t lead the girls on implying you want a LTR when in fact what you want is just some action. Histrionics love seduction but they love the game not the catch, as soon as they catch you they feel it´s the end game for them, it turns them off. The only way to keep them under your spell is being elusive.

I think passion is the answer. When you´re under intense feelings, the sex transcend from mechanical to a magical fusion. This is the ultimate connection that will hold your interest in a person. With time, sex by itself loses its appeal, then the search for a person who make a difference starts, or new people.

I too tend to get bored easily, so I intentionally give space to "maintain the flame alive". Too much circulation makes the price go down, as The Laws says.

The problem with the girl witholding sex from you is that she may be giving it up to another dude who she sees as FB, while you´re the BF. So the rules are different. What do you think?

 

[Mistic]

*Mistic you tend to have histrionc personality style don´t you? Just a question, how do the girls feel after such seduction, do they feel used or not? Are they aware it´s just a fling? Do you keep them as your fan club or you let them go? I don´t really see a problem doing what you do as long as you don´t lead the girls on implying you want a LTR when in fact what you want is just some action. Histrionics love seduction but they love the game not the catch, as soon as they catch you they feel it´s the end game for them, it turns them off. The only way to keep them under your spell is being elusive.

I think passion is the answer. When you´re under intense feelings, the sex transcend from mechanical to a magical fusion. This is the ultimate connection that will hold your interest in a person. With time, sex by itself loses its appeal, then the search for a person who make a difference starts, or new people.

I too tend to get bored easily, so I intentionally give space to "maintain the flame alive". Too much circulation makes the price go down, as The Laws says.

The problem with the girl witholding sex from you is that she may be giving it up to another dude who she sees as FB, while you´re the BF. So the rules are different. What do you think?

I am assuming you are female.

I had to look up histrionic , and I wouldn't say this exactly describes me. I am one of those hard to define mysterious types, which has added effect in seduction. For example, I did not intend this thread to be about me, nor do I seek approval. I just live how I like, generally good, and dont care about others opinions - whatever that disorder is called

To answer your questions. I am always up front with women. Most times I dont know how long I will be interested. I often want to remain interested longer, but something happens.

Keep in mind I have been married and had several ltr's. All I had up to 24 was ltr's

I just have really high standards and I havent met anyone of late who can keep my interest.

 

[speakeasy]

Depends on how tight that p*ssy is.

 

[DonJuanit0]

This actually reminds me of a thread I've done on this forum!! Not exactly the same but...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=169649

And yes, like you, after sex I just think that I have nothing more to share with this girl... It's pointless to even spend the night together!

 

[Mistic]

It's pointless to even spend the night together!

Yeah, this is why I always go to their house. It's easier to leave than to ask her to leave.

 

[Proselytiser]

It used to be until they started running jealousy games on me. Now its either there's a lot of chemistry (keep wanting it) or there isn't