"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For Highschoolers who still struggle

Mr. Cappucino

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I maybe should have put this in the high school forum, but it's more like a tip and a heads up.

For all the high school kids in this forum who still struggle with talking to women and get sad over the fact they're not surround by women, remember this: relax, you are still young, and you have many years ahead of you, SO MANY years. Be happy that you are not those "Playas", getting women pregnant at young ages and already working to support their new kids. Be happy that you don't have psycho b!tches or jealous boyfriends knock on your door ready to beat the testosterone out of you. Be happy you're not lying or using cheap tricks to get into someone's pants. If there is one thing I've learned, it's that those "Players" with their women are really fake motherfvckers who can't live a couple months without a woman by their side. I've seen "Players" who I used to look up to ruined and settling with ugly women just because they are desperate to have a woman, and they are not even happy!

Be lucky you are not one of them. Be happy to know that you've gone through months without a girlfriend and you haven't killed yourself yet. good job, you've earned my respect. remember, you many not be a womanizer, but you are honest and special. People do not understand the sheer complexity of your mind. One day the men you've envied will start to envy you;) ;)

~Flirt with many, Choose the qualified few~
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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