"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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For Highschoolers who still struggle

Mr. Cappucino

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I maybe should have put this in the high school forum, but it's more like a tip and a heads up.

For all the high school kids in this forum who still struggle with talking to women and get sad over the fact they're not surround by women, remember this: relax, you are still young, and you have many years ahead of you, SO MANY years. Be happy that you are not those "Playas", getting women pregnant at young ages and already working to support their new kids. Be happy that you don't have psycho b!tches or jealous boyfriends knock on your door ready to beat the testosterone out of you. Be happy you're not lying or using cheap tricks to get into someone's pants. If there is one thing I've learned, it's that those "Players" with their women are really fake motherfvckers who can't live a couple months without a woman by their side. I've seen "Players" who I used to look up to ruined and settling with ugly women just because they are desperate to have a woman, and they are not even happy!

Be lucky you are not one of them. Be happy to know that you've gone through months without a girlfriend and you haven't killed yourself yet. good job, you've earned my respect. remember, you many not be a womanizer, but you are honest and special. People do not understand the sheer complexity of your mind. One day the men you've envied will start to envy you;) ;)

~Flirt with many, Choose the qualified few~
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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