"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
For guys that wear Abercrombie clothes
- Thread starter BeerBong
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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but i'm actually interested in this shoes subject as well.
i'm gonna go get some female input on shoes,a nd i'll post back.
http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/uploaded_images/DB10010-706685.jpg
i think you have deeper issues than what kind of sandals to wear...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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some kinda artistic design....black/white stuff is good.
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HA HA AHHAHHAHAAHHAAH he has like 4 polos on with each one popped!!! where do these fags come up with these styles!?!!drak_ool said:
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Michele said:
and yet he's got a cute girl by his side while all YOU do is hate
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What that guy is wearing is just wrong on so many levels.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i personally find that site hilarious... however, i wonder where do you draw the line between making fun of these guys and hating. I mean some of the girls featured are drop dead gorgeous HB10's. Granted, the guy in the pic might not be banging them, but if he is, then he s doing better for himself than 99% of guys. And a lot of those guys are being made fun of for wearing extravagant clothes/hairstyles... peacocking anyone?MrS said:
That site is incredible.
They look like half dress half street shoes.
Take a look.
http://www.nunnbush.com/shop-nb/shoes/casual/cameron/prod83890.html