"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
For guys that wear Abercrombie clothes
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- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Crazy Asian
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but i'm actually interested in this shoes subject as well.
i'm gonna go get some female input on shoes,a nd i'll post back.
http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/uploaded_images/DB10010-706685.jpg
i think you have deeper issues than what kind of sandals to wear...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Crazy Asian
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some kinda artistic design....black/white stuff is good.
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HA HA AHHAHHAHAAHHAAH he has like 4 polos on with each one popped!!! where do these fags come up with these styles!?!!drak_ool said:
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Michele said:
and yet he's got a cute girl by his side while all YOU do is hate
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What that guy is wearing is just wrong on so many levels.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i personally find that site hilarious... however, i wonder where do you draw the line between making fun of these guys and hating. I mean some of the girls featured are drop dead gorgeous HB10's. Granted, the guy in the pic might not be banging them, but if he is, then he s doing better for himself than 99% of guys. And a lot of those guys are being made fun of for wearing extravagant clothes/hairstyles... peacocking anyone?MrS said:
That site is incredible.
They look like half dress half street shoes.
Take a look.
http://www.nunnbush.com/shop-nb/shoes/casual/cameron/prod83890.html