for every guy starting out..best thing about this site

[Albatross953]

I'm no DJ. Don't want To be. But in just over a year since I came here I've improved all parts of my life. I draw all kinds of female attention, and I know how to tell who just wants an orbiter. I deal with women on my terms.
I have three on pof, who are all high interest. I screen the ones I don't want. One of the three is super high maintenance and she trys to bait me, but I don't so I control the relationship. Two years ago I would have been owned by a girl like this. Now I really don't care!
I saw my two year Oneitis last week. Caught her looking, and the only word for the Look on her face was PAIN.
This site won't solve your problems with women. Oneitis sucks. But this place WILL teach you to HANDLE things.

 

[mrRuckus]

Are they young, though? If you're talking about 35 year olds, then who cares?

 

[Purefilth]

Are they young, though? If you're talking about 35 year olds, then who cares?

Does it matter?

Young or old - if he has their interest, and he wants them too, then what difference does the age make?

 

[The Gambler]

I'm no DJ. Don't want To be. But in just over a year since I came here I've improved all parts of my life. I draw all kinds of female attention, and I know how to tell who just wants an orbiter. I deal with women on my terms.
I have three on pof, who are all high interest. I screen the ones I don't want. One of the three is super high maintenance and she trys to bait me, but I don't so I control the relationship. Two years ago I would have been owned by a girl like this. Now I really don't care!
I saw my two year Oneitis last week. Caught her looking, and the only word for the Look on her face was PAIN.
This site won't solve your problems with women. Oneitis sucks. But this place WILL teach you to HANDLE things.

You say that you're no DJ.... And God bless ya for being modest... But the bottom line is that you are in control of your life and CONTENT. To me, those are the two biggest fruits of being a true DJ, not a lay count or anything else statistics-based.

The Gambler

 

[blindnowisee]

I'm not big on using buzz words however the definition of a "DJ" to me is this:

- Being outcome independent; you text a girl and don't constantly check your phone to see if she sent something back. You've got your own stuff to do!
- Continuous improvement of self
- Leader of your own fate and fortune and thus leader of women
Basically, Invictus sums it up best:
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

- Your world rocks so women who are invited into your world should be fascinated by it. On the flipside: you should feel the same about entering / exploring a woman's world.