for every cheating women there is a....great one

[frivolousz21]

GOOD ONE...im sorry to let you know this..but women are not as manipulative, lying, cheating, pieces of crap as you think.


its just not possible....maybe GIRLS are..not women. just like boys become men..girls become women.

remember this:

a lot of you have had bad success or no success or have been abused used or hurt by a women..

now you come here and think women are that bad..they arent.

believe me they arent.


I was abused as a kid...I have had problems trusting women and people....and ive hurt relationships with amazing women because of what I percieved to be something in my head that wasnt true..and its not true that most women test you or play with you.

most women want to meet a great guy like you come here to get urself to be that guy so you can meet that same great women.

dont lose sight of that..and dont let the negative naysayers tell you different.

how many guys out there or men who have great love lifes....who never came here would believe that woemn are evil when they have had great success.


women want a man..be a man.

 

[Desdinova]

I highly doubt it's in a woman's nature to cheat. However, if she feels nothing emotionally for the guy she's with, she'll take to the next guy who can emotionally stimulate her.

It all lies in how the man makes her feel. She will act upon her emotions. If the man can continually emotionally stimulate her, she's not going to stray. If the man continues to put her in one emotion constantly, she's going to get bored. She needs to feel that emotional excitement.

Yet again, it all boils down to the man's behavior. The man acts, the woman reacts. The man leads, the woman follows.

The man doesn't act, the woman is lost. The man doesn't lead, the woman walks around aimlessly. Whether women want to admit it or not, they are heavily reliant on men. But not just any man, a REAL MAN. When a woman is reliant on a man who knows what he's doing, she's not going to let go. If the man doesn't know what he's doing, the woman will wander around aimlessly until she finds a man who knows what he's doing; even if he only knows temporarily until he becomes reliant on the woman.

 

[zerocelcius]

I see what you are saying but when does a Girl become a Woman?

and Is the Ratio of 1:1 from the clean slate once they become a woman.

Cause if they cheated as a girl doesn't that count against them?

What exactly are we calling cheating here?

I feel that for the most part a faithfull girl becomes a faithfull Woman.

A cheating girl will become a older cheating woman/girl if you must.

 

[frivolousz21]

A cheating girl will become a older cheating woman/girl if you must.

maybe....but maturity plays a role in this..

ive cheated on multiple gf;s

there is no chance on this earth I will cheat on my girl now..because ive learned Integridy

but then again women may not see it that way.

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by Desdinova


It all lies in how the man makes her feel. She will act upon her emotions. If the man can continually emotionally stimulate her, she's not going to stray. If the man continues to put her in one emotion constantly, she's going to get bored.

Why place the weight on our shoulders? If she cheats, it's not our fault. It's her fault. If she's bored she can break up with me. It's never my fault she cheated. She's in charge of herself.

Maybe she's bored with me because of something she did. I stop wanting to stimulate her because she did something wrong maybe. Has she made me want to excite her?

I've noticed something about myself. I'm as boring as the people around me. If you like to talk and do things then i blabber on, do fun things, make jokes.. but if you're not interesting or not doing much of anything then i don't do anything either. Chicken and egg maybe...

 

[spider_007]

it's the other way around.

gurls are devoted when they are young and inocent, once they get a little older they get curropted, and become women......

 

[frivolousz21]

gurls are devoted when they are young and inocent, once they get a little older they get curropted, and become women......

THIS is not true!

guys get this terrible perception out of your heads...

you wont ever be really happy until you can fully love..

weather its women, work, fun, school.

damn..let the negativity go

 

[spider_007]

Listen bro; when your junior in highschool (or even before) chicks still belive in "TRUE LOVE". And when they fall in love they turn them selfs over to you to love them back and take care of them.....

once they are a little older, have gotten fake id's, gone through few b/f and have had their share of ONS, they grow into women. Women who don't bolive in "true love" as much as they do in "having a handsum husband and 2.5 kids" you need to stop the denial and move on to the other two stages of AFC recovery; anger & acceptance.

 

[Vibe]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
THIS is not true!

guys get this terrible perception out of your heads...

you wont ever be really happy until you can fully love..

weather its women, work, fun, school.

damn..let the negativity go

Right on, frivolous. No matter what the circumstance...

let. the. negativity. go....

~Vibe~

 

[frivolousz21]

Right on, frivolous. No matter what the circumstance...

thank you VIBE!


I hope more people take that attitude....Im trying to my hardest to get these guys to go for the success ive achieved..but they think you have to be be captain slap a hoe to win

 

[Desdinova]

Why place the weight on our shoulders?

Why initiate contact? Why get her phone number? Why make all the date plans? Because the woman won't. If you let her lead the relationship, it's going to go down the 5hitter pretty fast.

If you're unwilling to do the work, why are you here?

 

[Visceral]

Originally posted by Desdinova
If you're unwilling to do the work, why are you here?

Because they expect to be here. They think they're supposed to be all bent out of shape over women when in reality they're either gay or completely disillusioned.

 

[frivolousz21]

Because they expect to be here. They think they're supposed to be all bent out of shape over women when in reality they're either gay or completely disillusioned.

I dont get it!

maybe im having a brain cramp

 

[Visceral]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
I dont get it!

maybe im having a brain cramp

I think our culture pushes sex more than Nature ever did. Guys grow up with our culture constantly telling them that sex is the focus of their lives. They have two role models - Player or Nice Guy - that tell them how they should pursue sex.

I think that if this message wasn't being beamed into our brains 24/7, all guys wouldn't be anywhere near as horny as they are, and the virgin pvssies wouldn't even know they were that, and certainly wouldn't be obsessing and beating themselves up about it.

 

[italostud]

I'd just like to point out that there is no concrete division between "girls" and "women". I don't know what you guys are thinking. When does a girl become a woman? Please tell me. These things are a grey area, you can't keep talking in absolutes like that.

I'd also like to mention that, I've never been screwed over by a girl, never had some of the terrible things done to me by a woman, that some of you have.

That doesn't change the fact that I'm aware of human behavior. The most highly respected person in a society can turn out to be a monster inside. Look no farther than Priest molestation.

Just because someone is wary of other people, doesn't mean there's something wrong with them. Too much to the point of paranoia is of course not a good thing.

Many guys have been with "Great" women who have ended up screwing them seven ways to sunday, whether is be emotionally, financially(divorce), cheating, whatever.

Don't go through life blindly trusting everyone.

 

[frivolousz21]

I think that if this message wasn't being beamed into our brains 24/7, the virgin pvssies wouldn't even know they were that, and certainly wouldn't be obsessing and beating themselves up about it.

makes sense

 

[frivolousz21]

Don't go through life blindly trusting everyone.

I agree...but these guys here are so far skewed in there femenism..its not healthy

 

[Visceral]

Trust is a liability. But skepticism can be too.

It wouldn't surprise me if there are some guys on here that have read so much about bad women that they no longer (or never did) have faith that they'll land a good one, and so they don't even try.