Six-String Samurai
Don Juan
I'm not sure how obvious this tip may or may not be to some of you, but have a listen anyway.
If you are currently interested in a girl who you see regularly in a forced social setting such as school or work, this method has worked quite well in my experience. I used to work with this guy who the entire female staff wanted to fvck. Back in my AFC days, I used to watch him and be so confused. He wasn't the most attractive guy I'd ever seen, but he was well groomed, had nice clothes, and was extremely charismatic. Day after day I'd watch the girls fawn all over him, and finally he took the pick of the litter and banged her for the better part of a year.
Confused, my now non-AFC self has gone back and analyzed the situation from a DJ's perspective, trying to find exactly what it was that made every girl on the staff absolutely wet for this guy. And then I realized it:
He DJ'd EVERYONE!
Every girl on the staff, from the homely 17 year olds that he would never let his d*ck near, to the hot as fvck twenty-somethings, were targets for flirting. He would spit game at every girl, finding ways to make them feel excited and special, regardless of his interest in them. I can take this and compare it to what I usually do at work, which is act really charming and ****y and funny with the girls I like, and barely give the fuglies the time of day. What's the difference?
Girls talk!
Well duh, of course they do. But I began to realize that since every girl on the staff recieved attention from the DJ I was talking about earlier, they all had a favorable opinion and gut instinct about him.
Be honest: when you've found out that various girls like you, no matter who they are, you kinda like them a little bit more, just because they recognize something special inside of you. It's the same thing with this master DJ spitting game at every girl, regardless of who they were. All the girls had a positive mental association with this guy... they had no choice! He was consistantly funny, charming, and flirty... with EVERYONE. His social proof within the staff, therefore, was through the roof. Every girl had only good things to say about him.
The moral is, this guy was not a DJ with the girls he was interested in and an ******* to everyone else. He lives as a DJ every moment, from the minute he wakes up to the last moment he falls asleep (probably next to some hot-ass b*tch!).
Just a thought.
If you are currently interested in a girl who you see regularly in a forced social setting such as school or work, this method has worked quite well in my experience. I used to work with this guy who the entire female staff wanted to fvck. Back in my AFC days, I used to watch him and be so confused. He wasn't the most attractive guy I'd ever seen, but he was well groomed, had nice clothes, and was extremely charismatic. Day after day I'd watch the girls fawn all over him, and finally he took the pick of the litter and banged her for the better part of a year.
Confused, my now non-AFC self has gone back and analyzed the situation from a DJ's perspective, trying to find exactly what it was that made every girl on the staff absolutely wet for this guy. And then I realized it:
He DJ'd EVERYONE!
Every girl on the staff, from the homely 17 year olds that he would never let his d*ck near, to the hot as fvck twenty-somethings, were targets for flirting. He would spit game at every girl, finding ways to make them feel excited and special, regardless of his interest in them. I can take this and compare it to what I usually do at work, which is act really charming and ****y and funny with the girls I like, and barely give the fuglies the time of day. What's the difference?
Girls talk!
Well duh, of course they do. But I began to realize that since every girl on the staff recieved attention from the DJ I was talking about earlier, they all had a favorable opinion and gut instinct about him.
Be honest: when you've found out that various girls like you, no matter who they are, you kinda like them a little bit more, just because they recognize something special inside of you. It's the same thing with this master DJ spitting game at every girl, regardless of who they were. All the girls had a positive mental association with this guy... they had no choice! He was consistantly funny, charming, and flirty... with EVERYONE. His social proof within the staff, therefore, was through the roof. Every girl had only good things to say about him.
The moral is, this guy was not a DJ with the girls he was interested in and an ******* to everyone else. He lives as a DJ every moment, from the minute he wakes up to the last moment he falls asleep (probably next to some hot-ass b*tch!).
Just a thought.