"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ive heard all the stories about how you get more and more attention and IOI's from chicks as you get a bigger, better looking body.

So have any of you kind of resented it in a way? Like looked at the girls as shallow or something? because they werent giving you that attention for your looks before and they are now?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nope....can't say that I have. Thats something a female can't control on a conscious level. If they find something worth more, they will give it more attention. Plus I doubt I would find you giving a lot of attention to a 350lb girl that doesn't shave or take care of herself. Thats why part of attracting females has to do with looks.
 
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Why should we resent something completely natural? Sure you have a paradigm shift but geez if you are so pessimistic/"realistic" that you frame the attention in a negative way then, I guess, there's a problem somewhere within you. :)
 
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