"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ive heard all the stories about how you get more and more attention and IOI's from chicks as you get a bigger, better looking body.

So have any of you kind of resented it in a way? Like looked at the girls as shallow or something? because they werent giving you that attention for your looks before and they are now?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nope....can't say that I have. Thats something a female can't control on a conscious level. If they find something worth more, they will give it more attention. Plus I doubt I would find you giving a lot of attention to a 350lb girl that doesn't shave or take care of herself. Thats why part of attracting females has to do with looks.
 
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Why should we resent something completely natural? Sure you have a paradigm shift but geez if you are so pessimistic/"realistic" that you frame the attention in a negative way then, I guess, there's a problem somewhere within you. :)
 
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