"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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For all you who are hanging on by a thread

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For all you guys who are barely hanging on and dont know what to do or have a girl with lowered interest level I have a solution. Disappear. Not just until she calls and says she misses you. Not just until you think she loves you again. Just go until you dont need her anymore. Until she is out there in the cold beating your door down to suck your penis. That is the point when she needs you more then you need her. That is the point you should realize that women are bullsh1tting you and you dont ever need them. When you see her out there realize that her power is her control of your emotions. If she can no longer control them and has to beg you she is giving in. You now have your power back.
Also, realize that this is also your sh1t test. If she has loved u for so long then its nothing for her to stalk u down and beg you to come back. Women have no problem doing that.
THIS IS ALL YOU CAN DO. STOP ASKING ADVICE AND DO IT. IF SHE DONT COME BACK THEN IT WASNT MEANT TO BE. GO GET A LIFE AND WAIT FOR THE BANGING AT YOUR DOOR.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BobFuest said:
THIS IS ALL YOU CAN DO. STOP ASKING ADVICE AND DO IT. IF SHE DONT COME BACK THEN IT WASNT MEANT TO BE. GO GET A LIFE AND WAIT FOR THE BANGING AT YOUR DOOR.
No offense man, but there is a lot more you can do like - MOVE FORWARD with your life. And really, why would you ever wait for a woman to be bangin' on your door? Why not be bangin' on some other HB's door :)
 

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Sinistar said:
No offense man, but there is a lot more you can do like - MOVE FORWARD with your life. And really, why would you ever wait for a woman to be bangin' on your door? Why not be bangin' on some other HB's door :)
Thats why I said go get a life. I know your playing devil's advocate but it for those who wish to stay in whatever crappy relationship and keep asking what they can do to get her back.:) Plus I dont mean wait as in sit by the door, I meant wait and see the magic happen. she will come and pound on the door if she is as great as some of these guys make them out to be.
 

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Plus I dont mean wait as in sit by the door, I meant wait and see the magic happen. she will come and pound on the door if she is as great as some of these guys make them out to be.Written by BobFuest
Man, btw...the mayor of Candyland called and he wants his sweetness back.

It doesn't work that way. I think the Moderator should close this thread.
This thread isn't progressive, it's uninformative.

- AA
 

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Bob, you haven't put your usual effort into this one, and it shows. Some of your earlier work was OK, it got them going. But this is stale.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rollo said:
Man, btw...the mayor of Candyland called and he wants his sweetness back.

It doesn't work that way. I think the Moderator should close this thread.
This thread isn't progressive, it's uninformative.

- AA
dang. ok. didnt realize it had no merit.
 
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Actually I get the gist of his post - it's not earth shattering but it is valid nonetheless!! Yes, this is a test of true love and to the length of which a woman tries to prove it to a man!! It's a long-term endearing love - and NOT a temporary Hor's infactuation!!! This is actually the ULTIMATE test to show the woman's intent!!!!

You have enlightened me DJ BobFuest - I had an epiphany!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Actually I get the gist of his post - it's not earth shattering but it is valid nonetheless!! Yes, this is a test of true love and to the length of which a woman tries to prove it to a man!! It's a long-term endearing love - and NOT a temporary Hor's infactuation!!! This is actually the ULTIMATE test to show the woman's intent!!!!

You have enlightened me DJ BobFuest - I had an epiphany!
I get what you're saying too
 

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heh, I guess I am the only one who thinks this is a good idea.
 
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