"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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For all you guys using MYSPACE.....

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Originally posted by Valdez
I usually try to have a profile that gets a girl more interested in me. I'm currently redoing the whole profile, but the most important thing on the profile is probably the default pic. A good default pic will get girls to check out your profile, and if they like what they see, they will send a message to you.

www.myspace.com/bvaldez

The hottest of the hot though, I message them, but don't give any compliments about their looks, as they are used to messages like that. I usually send general messages i have written already to a hottie such as...

" Hi, I was just here at home, just finished reading up on some things and figured browsing through some profiles wouldn't be a bad idea. Your profile was one of those profiles that got some of my attention. Can you guess what it was that caught my attention exactly? I don't want to keep you, so I guess the best course of action would be for you to check out my profile to see if I'm a person you would like to get to know a bit better. Maybe tag eachother with a few messages. If not, no hard feelings and have a good night/morning (depending on when you read this)

Brian "
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Valdez,

so what do you tell the girl when she replies and says what caught your attention in her profile?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Valdez
I usually try to have a profile that gets a girl more interested in me. I'm currently redoing the whole profile, but the most important thing on the profile is probably the default pic. A good default pic will get girls to check out your profile, and if they like what they see, they will send a message to you.

www.myspace.com/bvaldez

The hottest of the hot though, I message them, but don't give any compliments about their looks, as they are used to messages like that. I usually send general messages i have written already to a hottie such as...

" Hi, I was just here at home, just finished reading up on some things and figured browsing through some profiles wouldn't be a bad idea. Your profile was one of those profiles that got some of my attention. Can you guess what it was that caught my attention exactly? I don't want to keep you, so I guess the best course of action would be for you to check out my profile to see if I'm a person you would like to get to know a bit better. Maybe tag eachother with a few messages. If not, no hard feelings and have a good night/morning (depending on when you read this)

Brian "
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So what do ou say back to these girls when they say "what caught your eye in my profile"?
 
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I just try to find something on their profile that would catch my eye, here's an example of a few messages I sent to this chick http://myspace-445.vo.llnwd.net/00182/54/41/182791445_l.jpg
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RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: No Subject
Body: goodnight its past ur bedtime.... just playing I'll chat with you later

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C. Valdez
Date: Aug 10, 2005 11:50 PM

Good! Well i'm going to bed, hopefully find it worth your time to get to know eachother a bit better! good night.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Renona
Date: Aug 10, 2005 11:35 PM

ohhhhhh.... Well I see now lol :)

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C. Valdez
Date: Aug 10, 2005 11:30 PM

Cause of all the pretty colors and pictures. lol jk, I was browsin through the stmary profiles cause i met quite a few of them at a friend's bbq. I didn't meet you, I'm not the lucky, but you seemed photogenic enough. No other information got me curious.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Renona
Date: Aug 10, 2005 11:26 PM

Now how did MY profile catch your attention???

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C. Valdez
Date: Aug 10, 2005 11:19 PM

Hi, I was just here at home, just finished reading up on some things and figured browsing through some profiles wouldn't be a bad idea. Your profile was one of those profiles that got some of my attention. I guess the best course of action would be for you to check out my profile to see if I'm a person you would like to get to know a bit better. Maybe tag eachother with a few messages. If not, no hard feelings and have a good night/morning (depending on when you read this)

Brian
 
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Originally posted by Valdez
I didn't meet you, I'm not the lucky, but you seemed photogenic enough. No other information got me curious.
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yea im sure thats way different than what all the other avrage ass kissers say!

holy **** man...have you learned anything from this site.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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