"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Valdez
I usually try to have a profile that gets a girl more interested in me. I'm currently redoing the whole profile, but the most important thing on the profile is probably the default pic. A good default pic will get girls to check out your profile, and if they like what they see, they will send a message to you.

www.myspace.com/bvaldez

The hottest of the hot though, I message them, but don't give any compliments about their looks, as they are used to messages like that. I usually send general messages i have written already to a hottie such as...

" Hi, I was just here at home, just finished reading up on some things and figured browsing through some profiles wouldn't be a bad idea. Your profile was one of those profiles that got some of my attention. Can you guess what it was that caught my attention exactly? I don't want to keep you, so I guess the best course of action would be for you to check out my profile to see if I'm a person you would like to get to know a bit better. Maybe tag eachother with a few messages. If not, no hard feelings and have a good night/morning (depending on when you read this)

Brian "
Valdez,

so what do you tell the girl when she replies and says what caught your attention in her profile?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Valdez
I usually try to have a profile that gets a girl more interested in me. I'm currently redoing the whole profile, but the most important thing on the profile is probably the default pic. A good default pic will get girls to check out your profile, and if they like what they see, they will send a message to you.

www.myspace.com/bvaldez

The hottest of the hot though, I message them, but don't give any compliments about their looks, as they are used to messages like that. I usually send general messages i have written already to a hottie such as...

" Hi, I was just here at home, just finished reading up on some things and figured browsing through some profiles wouldn't be a bad idea. Your profile was one of those profiles that got some of my attention. Can you guess what it was that caught my attention exactly? I don't want to keep you, so I guess the best course of action would be for you to check out my profile to see if I'm a person you would like to get to know a bit better. Maybe tag eachother with a few messages. If not, no hard feelings and have a good night/morning (depending on when you read this)

Brian "
So what do ou say back to these girls when they say "what caught your eye in my profile"?
 

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I just try to find something on their profile that would catch my eye, here's an example of a few messages I sent to this chick http://myspace-445.vo.llnwd.net/00182/54/41/182791445_l.jpg
(Read the bottom message first)

RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: No Subject
Body: goodnight its past ur bedtime.... just playing I'll chat with you later

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C. Valdez
Date: Aug 10, 2005 11:50 PM

Good! Well i'm going to bed, hopefully find it worth your time to get to know eachother a bit better! good night.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Renona
Date: Aug 10, 2005 11:35 PM

ohhhhhh.... Well I see now lol :)

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C. Valdez
Date: Aug 10, 2005 11:30 PM

Cause of all the pretty colors and pictures. lol jk, I was browsin through the stmary profiles cause i met quite a few of them at a friend's bbq. I didn't meet you, I'm not the lucky, but you seemed photogenic enough. No other information got me curious.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Renona
Date: Aug 10, 2005 11:26 PM

Now how did MY profile catch your attention???

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: B.C. Valdez
Date: Aug 10, 2005 11:19 PM

Hi, I was just here at home, just finished reading up on some things and figured browsing through some profiles wouldn't be a bad idea. Your profile was one of those profiles that got some of my attention. I guess the best course of action would be for you to check out my profile to see if I'm a person you would like to get to know a bit better. Maybe tag eachother with a few messages. If not, no hard feelings and have a good night/morning (depending on when you read this)

Brian
 

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Originally posted by Valdez
I didn't meet you, I'm not the lucky, but you seemed photogenic enough. No other information got me curious.
yea im sure thats way different than what all the other avrage ass kissers say!

holy **** man...have you learned anything from this site.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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