"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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God_of_getting_layed said:
Yeah, women respond to compliments. ITs a myth that they dont. YOu just gotta do it right. Women love it when I tell them how sexy she is etc.

and negs dont do anything, you might as well ask her what time it is, and expect some kind of good reaction.
So hotties respond to compliments and negging them is a waste of time, got it. :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Negs dont make a woman want you. It may get her attention for 1/2 a second(not in a favoring way either), depending on the woman. But you just make the woman despise you, and actually put up an even tougher barrier than there was before in the extreme neg hits (if she is one of the women who respond). but most of the time, youll just annoy her, and come accross as subtly obnoxious, in those common cases, you wont even get her attention, it will roll off her back like water off a ducks ass. If your just trying to get her attention, there are much better ways to do it than a neg, lol. And they dont break the so called ***** shield. Negs at best might get her to pay attention to you, but its a pathetic way to do it, its a myth that a woman will actually expend energy to prove your neg wrong( the foundation of the ngehit theory) rarely happens. At most, the woman might say something smart back, but thats it, *****shield back up, and nothing is favorable for you.. Ever heard of a sense of humor in your approach?

heres a neg hit for all you mystery lovers: mystery sucks, neghits dont work.
hmmm, do you guys like me now? lol, probably not. haha, see what I mean?
 

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This doesn't read like a forum of "Mystery" haters, it comes accross as most of you like him. :confused:
 

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Yes, I do clearly see one thing - you don't deal with many gorgeous women, do you?

Last week alone I had 3 girls confess to me that they always feel insecure about themselves. Nobody said negs were to get attention. Negs are about showing her that YOU DO NOT THINK SHE IS THE ONE. That you will not be a slave to her beauty. That you deal with chicks of her caliber often. See the sky yet?

You know what, I am not even going to defend negs - what I am using right now is so simple and effective I don't need any of this, but what you wrote in your last post is completely wrong. I do agree that some girls will get mad if you insult them, but not over negs, not if you are doing them right.
 

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Oxide said:
Yes, I do clearly see one thing - you don't deal with many gorgeous women, do you?

Last week alone I had 3 girls confess to me that they always feel insecure about themselves. Nobody said negs were to get attention. Negs are about showing her that YOU DO NOT THINK SHE IS THE ONE.

You know what, I am not even going to defend negs - what I am using right now is so simple and effective I don't need any of this, but what you wrote in your last post is completely wrong. I do agree that some girls will get mad if you insult them, but not over negs, not if you are doing them right.
okay, ask yourself the question: why do you care to show her "you dont think she is the one"?

The answer is becuase youre trying to get her attention, and this is clear, becuase according to the neg theory, women will try to expend energy proving you wrong, and helping their insecurity, thus giving you attention. sorry, neg hits are pathetic ways to achieve those goals getting attention, which seems to be the purpose of neg hits.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Always Compliment A Beautiful Woman - Unless You Desire To Keep Your Penis In Your Pants :cool:
 

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Yea, writing poems and over doing everything for her to the point where you are coming on strong and she KNOWS you are interested - that is bad.

A compliment won't kill you though. They are good. Tonight I was talking to a girl and I told her that her nails looked pretty hot. She got all excited and started talking about it - most guys don't notice little things like that. Also, most guys don't have the guts to go up to a girl and say "You lips are sexy" the AFC type guys don't approach in the first place and are scared to come off like that anyways. The point is to be different, stand out, and do what no other guys are doing (yea I said the same thing three times).
 

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Oxide said:
Yes, I do clearly see one thing - you don't deal with many gorgeous women, do you?

Last week alone I had 3 girls confess to me that they always feel insecure about themselves. Nobody said negs were to get attention. Negs are about showing her that YOU DO NOT THINK SHE IS THE ONE. That you will not be a slave to her beauty. That you deal with chicks of her caliber often. See the sky yet?

You know what, I am not even going to defend negs - what I am using right now is so simple and effective I don't need any of this, but what you wrote in your last post is completely wrong. I do agree that some girls will get mad if you insult them, but not over negs, not if you are doing them right.
I have never used neg-hits on a girl, yet I have never been a slave to a girls beauty either, so try to figure that one out. :D
 

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student associations often call all manner of people to go speak... but their affiliation to the actual school and the prestige of it is tenuous at best.

heck, if you count all the various people who've been called over to speak for groups from harvard to ucla to caltech to wherever, you'll find that the common thread is not so much expertise but celebrity.

in this case, i would wager that the extremely virginal men at MIT (probably more virgins per square inch than comicon (!!!)) caught whiff of THE GAME and wanted lessons. hey, i would!

not to put mystery down. despite how f'd up his life has been at times, i can do no less than tip my hat to a guy who knows how to get laid whenever he feels like it.

but just saying that this is probably not as prestigious as the op thinks it is.

delta
 

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To me, Mystery isn't like GOD-STATUS. But his techniques are pretty damn good. I don't know what some of you guys do with your negs, but when I neg hit a girl it always works wonders for me. :up: There's lots of stuff he teaches other than neg hitting though, u can read his stuff off limewire hahahaha.

People here have a beef because he makes ridiculous amounts of people. so? That's America for you, good job! I dun pay a cent for anything since i urbandictionary.com, google, or search on mystery's forum for all of his concepts if i can't get it off limewire.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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waxlrose said:
Ever heard of MIT...Massachusetts Institute of Technology.

This is where geniuses go to college.

Mystery lectured there recently.

MIT is doing a study on Group Theory and the effectiveness of "Negs"

They aren't studying ****y/funny, or prizing (which is good) or Tyler Durden, or Style...etc.

Even if they were, it all came from Mystery...it's all on mASF when you want to look it up.

Do you have a link to this news?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I actually approach women and tell them that I'm taking a poll on how many guys have offered to buy women a drink in a given period. I get strange looks at first but almost always we get into conversations about AFCs and the stupid things that they do to get the attention of a woman...
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Gold - Talking about AFCs and the silly things they do is a DHV in and of itself, shows that you KNOW better.

Will use that opener this weekend.
Very true.

I am actually going to slightly change that and use it on the hottest chicks in the whole place (there is often 1 or 2).

I'll just say...

Hey... I'm curious... Since you got here, how many guys have offered to buy you a drink?

She will say x number

And how long have you been here?

She will say x time (p.s. this shows that you havent been checking her out since she got here)

So, if the number of guys is high... then go into the AFC thing. If the number is low, then neg her... (i.e. how come so little? what's wrong with you? you're not one of those crazy chicks are you??? or some crap like that) THEN... move into the AFC thing, DHV and get the conversation going.

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So hotties respond to compliments and negging them is a waste of time, got it. :up:
Hahahaa...
TOOLED!
 

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I wouldnt mine knowing how many Mystery supporters actually walked up to a group. That would be interesting to see.
 

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God_of_getting_layed said:
and BTW, negs dont work, they dont do ****. they just make you look stupid.
You make a compelling arguement. The sophistication of the factual information you bring to the table is quite overwhelming.

Don't hate then run. You gotta back things up with reasoning. Just because it doesn't work for you, doesn't suddenly make it useless to 3 billion other schlong-holders on this globe.

Negs have worked for me, just like they have for the mass amounts of blokes accross the world with the balls to use them. Some people say it's stupid, others have the balls to risk looking stupid. What category do you fit into?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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