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Master Don Juan
whatever wutangfinancial says I'm with, because as well all know.. Wu Tang Clan ain't nothin to Fvck with!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'll play devil's advocate.azanon said:97% of the population has no business (attempting to) buy and sell individual securities, be them bonds or stocks. Most people are far better off buying mutual funds.
Unless you're, say, a financial analyst by profession such as Clooney, ignore any advise to read any book that would have you buying individuals stocks and bonds. There are so many other better things to do with your time. The chance of an ameteur beating a vanilla index stock mutual fund(s) over a long period of time are very slim.
Also, avoid reading scam-artist books suck as any written by Kiyosaki. Right this very moment, many people are learning the hard way about the fools gold in real estate "investing" (which is much more accurately described as a job, than an investment). With mere investments, you don't actually do much of anything.
Most people need more help learning how to manage money, budget, and learning save vs. spending discipline than on how to get the highest return on their money. It kills me how people will spend so much of their day studying how to invest in stocks when they don't save enough to even make the effort worth their time! Because of my saving discipline, I don't need super high returns to have a lot of money. Saving discipline is where it's at. Your rate of return is ancillary compared to that!
If the average mutual fund manager who usually has related degrees out the wazoo, spends all day picking stocks/visiting companies, and is paid 100s of thousands of dollars to do exactly this can't beat an index stock fund (this is a true statement that's been well documented and demonstrated) covering the spread of the expense ratio, then what makes you think you (or anyone else) can?GQ_Confidence_1 said:-You get better over time. I dont think you're going to learn it instantly, but there's alot of books out there. There are alot of different strategies. Similar patterns repeat (this time it's different!).
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I think mutual fund managers are in a different game than the average investor.azanon said:If the average mutual fund manager who usually has related degrees out the wazoo, spends all day picking stocks/visiting companies, and is paid 100s of thousands of dollars to do exactly this can't beat an index stock fund (this is a true statement that's been well documented and demonstrated) covering the spread of the expense ratio, then what makes you think you (or anyone else) can?
In short, can you beat an index fund? Here's how to tell: find a random number generator on the net, set it to a range of 1 to 100, and roll it. if you hit exactly 100, then maybe you can. ~80% of fund managers cant do it; how much higher is this percentage for the average joe doing it in his/her spare time????
Wanna get rich? Focus more on how you can make more money in your occupation, or trade. Once you make the money, find something autopilot-like to protect and grow it; again, like index funds. "Day-trading" or simply buying and selling stocks yourself for any holding time period is about as legitimate an occupation as gambling in Las Vegas.
You have described random walk theory, the idea that it is impossible to predict the markets. The academic world still teaches that theory, but traders laugh at it. If the market could not be beaten, then there would be no George Soros or Warren Buffett. Random walk theory says that they have done the impossible.azanon said:In short, can you beat an index fund? Here's how to tell: find a random number generator on the net, set it to a range of 1 to 100, and roll it. if you hit exactly 100, then maybe you can. ~80% of fund managers cant do it; how much higher is this percentage for the average joe doing it in his/her spare time????
For almost everyone that is true, I agree.azanon said:Wanna get rich? Focus more on how you can make more money in your occupation, or trade. Once you make the money, find something autopilot-like to protect and grow it; again, like index funds.
Although they are in the vast minority, there are still profitable day traders and swing traders in the markets. It is a very legitimate occupation. The financial markets benefit from all participants - the more people, the better. Every trader adds liquidity and lowers the transaction costs of everyone else.azanon said:"Day-trading" or simply buying and selling stocks yourself for any holding time period is about as legitimate an occupation as gambling in Las Vegas.